MsC1210 Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 Hello Everyone.. Well, after taking some time for myself and getting Mom back on her feet so to speak I am going to try and get caught up with the posts here and hopefully be back and stronger than before. Lots of crap going on with my Mom and Jerry's kids. I never bothered to mention them much, if at all before as they had NOTHING at all to do with him or my Mom until the day after he died. Then of cour$e they came running. It has been sickening to see the greed and the cold heartedness. It all came to a head over this past week and my Mom packed up her belongings and moved back to her own place that she had not sold or done anything with over the years she was with Jerry. THANK GOD FOR THAT. Anyway, Jerry's son began saying some incredibly mean and nasty things to my mom, in front of me and it got very, very ugly and almost came to blows. He had us trapped in a small pantry, shoved me against the refrigerator and began to raise his hand to me. Only once would that happen, and of that I am 110% sure. My husband heard the shouting from out side and came in and finally got the moron to move away and Mom and I just got out. Not at all what any of us needed and not at all how we had wanted this to end, but greed and grief, hand in hand are a dangerous and volatile pair for some people. I know this is far from over but now it will go through legal channels and that is the only way it will be handled. Mom did not need this crap. She had not even had a chance to begin to grieve. I am staying close by but also giving her the time and space that I know are so vitally important right now. I check on her every day and if I have any reason to think there is ANYTHING wrong I pop in and say hi. She is amazing me with her strength. I am going to be around a bit now and will do my best to get caught up. I am sure I will never be able to read every post and reply but please know that this whole "family" here has been in my thoughts and prayers and will continue to be.. Love and hugs to all Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muriel Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 Glad to see you back, Chris. What a mess you and you're mom are facing now. Just stay away from the dangerous ones (that might be all of them). Muriel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 Chris, Yikes, definetly a sad and scary situation. I hope better days are ahead for your mom and yourself. Welcome back, were here if you need it, Wendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 as mom would say,"Crack him with a cast iron and he will shape up quick when he comes to!!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 Hi Chris. It sure sounds ugly. I hope you and your mom can find some peace. yeah, let the court handle it. Don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
recce101 Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 Hi, Chris, it's good to see you posting again. It sounds like you've been a great help to your mom, and I hope the situation for both of you begins to smooth out soon. Aloha, Ned Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueeye Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Wow Chris, what a mess. I am glad to see you're back! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Oh geez. It's too bad your mom has to go through all that. I hope she has everything she needs to protect herself and their joint assets in court. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 I've missed you. Welcome back. Sorry about the 'family' stuff. Many of us understand though. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Hey Chris, Good to see you here. Sorry for all you are going through. I just don't understand some people . Hope it all gets resolved soon. Hugs, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandraL Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Hi Christine. Welcome back and I look forward to your posts. You shouldn't worry about getting back to all...not expected at all. We are just glad to have your smiling face back on this board. Sandra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruce u Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Hey Chris. Great to see you posting again. Unfortunately greed causes rift's in alot of families. I am sure the courts will straighten it all out. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patti B Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 (((((Chris))))) Wasn't on the site yesterday except once early in the morning - sorry I missed this. Will be giving you a call once the sun comes all the way up!!! So glad you're back!!! Hugs - Patti B. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharonjo Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 Oh Chris, I am so sorry for the terrible time that you and mom are having. Hope it gets resolved quickly. I'm praying for you. Glad to see you back. Stay strong! Love, Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trish2418 Posted July 30, 2008 Share Posted July 30, 2008 Good to see you posting again, Chris. Welcome back. But I am sorry you and your mom have to deal with such nonsense right now. Hope it works itself out. Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shellit74 Posted July 30, 2008 Share Posted July 30, 2008 welcome back Chris... Thinking of you and sending you positive vibes (((((hug))))) Shelli Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
snappy Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Hi Chris, that is a lot to deal with. Take it slow coming back. It is so sad how a death in the family so many times brings out the worse in people. I will put you and your Mom in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaroleHammett Posted August 1, 2008 Share Posted August 1, 2008 Chris: Sorry your Mom is having to go through all this. She is so lucky to have you (as are all of us!) Affectionately, Carole I'd rather die while I'm living then live while I'm dead.--Jimmy Buffett Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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