Fall54 Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Dear Family, I have been getting increasingly depressed over the past faw months and maybe since January when my Brother was dx. I have said so many times I could never leave here as I care so much for so many of you, however I am leaving tomorrow morning and going away for a week with my husband and see if I can find Jane again. I will spend my time hopefully away from all the pressures and thoughts in my head and heart that hurt. I am praying you all will be well and that you all know that I will continue to pray for you. I will check in when I get back and make the hard decision of if I have to leave this site for my own good. I love you all very much. God Bless each and every one of you, Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiny Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Jane- You have our gratitude and love for your generosity. You have not only "talked the talk" but also "walked the walk". Take time for yourself and your family now. Your health and well being are vitally important to us. Take care and God bless. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Cheryl- Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Jane, I for one would really miss you if you went away. I do understand where you are coming from. It is very hard on one emotionally. The prognosis for those with lung cancer is not that great. I have been here quite a while and have lost too many friends to this disease. For me, this board has been a God send. It has helped me through some really low points. You are one of those special people, who just cares too much. Losing friends on this board is not easy. What helps me is my faith, and the belief that life on this earth is so brief. I trust that God has more in store for us after the death of our physical bodies. You have helped so many here on this board. Your brother's death has not been in vain. I hope you come back to us when you are feeling better. Cheryl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest bean_si (Not Active) Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 I'll really miss you Jane. You've been so kind and an inspiration to the community. I think you're unselfish donation to sponsor the hosting of this board has urged others, including myself, to take a more active part. I'll miss you personally too as you have been so caring to me. With all that said though, I understand. I also feel the need to take a break. The recent deaths have cut like a knife. Cat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karenl Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Jane I hope you have a great holiday, and come back feeling refreshed and renewed. You are such an important member of this community. Wishing you the best Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa O Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 (((Jane))) We are here if you need us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Jane, Very very sorry to hear this. Perfectly understandable. The personal PM's you sent me meant a lot and I always enjoy your posts, kindness, warmth, generosity and spirit. Do hope you come back. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Peace, take care and God Bless. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debaroo Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Jane, I hope that you are able to have some time to reflect...you were a wonderful sister and I am sure your brother wants you to find yourself again, too... Just take a deep breath...hold...and let it out. Don't worry about us, we'll be here...waiting. Deb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Jane, I'm glad you are taking a trip. Try to relax and enjoy. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
char1048 Posted August 15, 2004 Share Posted August 15, 2004 Jane please enjoy your time away and I hope to see you post again when you return but you are the only one that can make that desicion you are a inspiration to all of us here. Prays and God bless you as you go find Jane again. Charolette Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NellW Posted August 16, 2004 Share Posted August 16, 2004 Jane, Praying for you and hubby to have a truly wonderful time and for you to feel like yourself again. Will miss your posts xxoo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paddy Posted August 16, 2004 Share Posted August 16, 2004 Have a good break Jane and hope to see you back again soon. If not I am sure we will all understand. Paddy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BJ Posted August 16, 2004 Share Posted August 16, 2004 Hi Jane, Please go an have a good, relaxing time. I hope you can find peace of mind and peace within yourself. BJ Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MayFrog Posted August 16, 2004 Share Posted August 16, 2004 Jane, Oh hon, I hope you find what you're looking for this week...if ever anyone needed some "me" time, it's you! With every one of your posts, I could feel the bond between you and your brother...you're very special and he was blessed to have you. And now, I still get a smile when I see your name beside a post....because I know I'm going to read a message of sincere hope and encouragement. I can understand that you need a break from this board......I just hope it's not a permanent one You would be terribly missed; but you must do what feels right to you. Thanks for being here.......Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ViVi Posted August 17, 2004 Share Posted August 17, 2004 Thank you, Jane, for all you did for TBone and for all you have done for me and the other members of this board. May you find comfort; may you find peace. Love, ViVi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Rick Posted August 17, 2004 Share Posted August 17, 2004 Jane, as Katieb said, we support you in any decision you have to make. You have to do what makes You heal. If it means leaving the site for a week, month, year or forever to heal, then by all means do it...!! RIck Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angie Daughter of Bill Posted August 17, 2004 Share Posted August 17, 2004 I totally understand your feelings. I hope that you can find "Jane" this week. I also hope that you do return to us...........I know......I'm being selfish. I enjoy your posts so much. You do what feels right for you, my dear. In my thoughts and prayers~~~ Angie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elaine Posted August 17, 2004 Share Posted August 17, 2004 Jane Lots of love and hope you find yourself. elaine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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