Too Many,
Sports Illustrated, Triathlon, Bicycle, Runners, Time
Newsweek, Smartmoney, Discover, Popular Science, Civil War Times
Consumer Reports, National Geographic and a number of
Builder magazines.
My poor Mail person
Andrea,
I have goose bumps!! I am so very very happy for you.
We all know how much you have wanted a family and now
God has blessed you with both a little boy and little
girl . This is indeed a very special day.
Vespa,
I am sorry you need to be here, but glad you found us.
My husband was diagnosed 2.5 years ago and although it has been bad at times
Alan is currently living a very high quality of life.
This is all very overwhelming at first, but believe it or not you will find a rhythm.
As others have said, do not be in a big hurry to change your mom's diet. Eating will be a very
essintial part of her recovery. Alan's diet is a nutritionist nightmare, but he is eating and that's what matters.
I will keep you and your mom in prayer.
No I do not feel guilty for not giving money to them
I have given to a few, but most of the time I do not.
Most all my giving now goes to the men and organizations that have kept Alan alive!!!!
You did the right thing. I have on a number of occassions cancelled "outings" I had done in the past
to be with Alan. It is what felt right in my heart
and my gut and I believe this is what you felt also.
Go with what "feels" right for you and your Dad right
now. That is what is most important.
Continued prayers for both you and your Dad.
Oh my gosh, I laughed until I cried. I think spending
so much time at the hospital and reading Alan's charts and reports
this really seems very funny to me.
Take a nap, in fact I have decided to take the rest
of today off and tomorrow (mental Health days!!) and
do that very thing. (prbably by the pool to work on
the much needed tan )
I know I am coming in late, but Alan also had CT scan
every three months. They also check to be sure he is still empty headed!!
Enjoy the time with your Mom, sounds like it will be
one heck of a party!!
Heidi,
This news really bites I hate that the
beast has once again invaded your lives. Your mom is
a fighter and with you in her corner I believe she
will once again beat the beast back. Prayers for you
and your mom.
Tracy,
I am so very sorry you are dealing with this. You are
not in denial, but unfortunatley your family is. I
dealt with the same issue with Alan's sons. It was so
infuriating that I almost lost control. It was easier
for them to bury their heads in the sand, then come
to grips at how very sick their Dad was. It came to
the point I believe they acutally avoided Alan. So
much time they lost. You Keep fighting. There will
be many many people you can count on, it just might
not be the ones you expected.