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Just did Nina

What is it with dilaudid, everytime I hear about someone that has been given dilaudid something not good comes from it..My dad passed a couple of days after he was given dilaudid, actually he ended up in ICU the next morning after they poisoned him with it...I know Lily, its crazy what can actually happen..

Happy anniversary Cindy

Gay, Sounds like you had a beautiful evening. Nothing is better than spending a great evening with your soulmate..

Praying for sticky fingers...

Dear Ginny, I hate cancer and I hate what it does to beautiful people. I dont know what else to say, I just said a prayer for you and Earl.. ((((GINNY and EARL)))))

Not sure how to answer that, because I was one of the ignorant ones who would ask "did or do they smoke". I do remember wondering how a non smoker could get LC, so I guess I would lean toward yes.

Just wanted to jump in and say hi Carleen and Keith, its good to hear from you..

Welcome back Andrea, I think about you often because just as you were deciding to quit your job my son was making his decision on which law school to attend, so I am hoping that becoming a lawyer is the right career for him, I started to wonder after all the negative feedback I was hearing, hopefully it will work for him..Anyway, welcome back and I hope you and Brian find what you're looking for I have a feeling you will..Hoping your mom does well and tolerates the Iressa..Way back right before Iressa was FDA approved, it was on an accelerated approval, my dads onc told them it would cost about $1500 a month and they didnt have very good prescription coverage..

Have a wonderful time!

Dear Jane, I am so sorry for the loss of your special brother Allen..Your faith is so strong and beautiful, God will give you the strength you need and guide you through this devasting time..

You absolutely have my prayers..I am curious too where in mi are you going..I have a wedding too tomorrow, wouldnt that be a crazy coincidence..

Wonderful news Rachel..

Kris, Well I have been thinking about this day for a while. I have decided I am not going to see my father in law as selfish as that may seem I just dont want to put myself through it..Fathers day was always a special day for me, it was the day that was devoted to my dad.. We didnt do anything different or out of the ordinary. It was just a day to let him know how much I loved him.... I loved picking out a Fathers day card for him, as much as I adored him we never said "I love you" but that was ok because all I had to do was look at him and his eyes told me over and over. I would get him a really mushy card and he would look at me and I know what he wanted to say.. I agree with Curtis, that if you reach out to someone in pain it helps us to heal as well, however Sunday I just cant do it.. I already told my mom I wanted to spend the day alone, she knows how much I adored my dad, so I am hoping she understands, I just cant deal with comforting her that day, after all he was MY DAD. I have spent all the other special days comforting her, now I want this day for me..I hate the way this is sounding, I am sorry but again he was my dad. A special man who would protect me until his last breath.. So here is what I am going to do, you know how we have to live by a new normal, I am going to honor another wonderful father, my husband, I am going to go to Hallmark and try and pick out a beautiful card for him..We are going to a concert in the evening and I know there wont be any emotional songs being played (Prince concert) its so hard to listen to music these days but thats another story.. Here we are again Kris, another one of those dreaded first..I know my father in law will be ok with me not going to see him, he's a good guy, nothing at all like my dad though, I think my husband was closer to my dad than his. I think you should go with your instincts, why should your heart have to break more than it really needs to, my opinion is if they care and love you they will understand.. After all its Fathers day and as hard as this is our very precious dads are not here..My father in law is not my father at least not this year.. I'm sorry its how I feel... Let me know how it goes and what you decide..

Cat, I will be thinking of you today and hoping for great results..

Dear Debi, Your post brought tears to my eyes....Its so good to hear you are feeling well too..ENJOY your day!!!!!

Hi David, so glad you had a great birthday..My hubby received an offer today to go to the game, he has to teach a class tonight, so he had to refuse, boy did he hate that Poor guy

Karen and David, Sorry your news was not better..Will keep you in my prayers, as always please let us know how everything is going and what the next plan of action is....

Glad you're back

Welcome Terri Everyone really does understand where you were coming from. Hope you stay

Just did for mom and you too..

Thank you I didnt realize Mo was so young. I still cant believe she is gone

Laurie, Sending prayers for your mom and friend...

HAPPY BIRTHDAY DAVID!!! HAVE A WONDERFUL DAY

Hi Norme, Its nice to see you again..Sorry about your friend, will keep an eye out for him..