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(((Grace))), This cancer thing is such an emotional roller coaster. You can't turn off all those thoughts and there will be times where you just kind of lose it like you said, but I personally think that those times help to strengthen us , as well. You've had an emotionally draining week anyway. Seeing your friend Tonya having such a rough time on top of your husbands situation is very hard to accept and process. When we go through life dealing with this disease, it seems we see everything and everyone around us in a different way than before. It's hard and my heart goes out to you. You will be ok. All you can do is to take it one day at a time. luv , Sue

Hi Welthy, Love your pic... thanks for sharing it with us. As for your question about prednisone and withdrawl... First of all, there are so many possible causes for his symptoms and only a doctor can answer those questions, but I will tell you that my husband was on steroid therapy of all kinds during his treatment and yes there are definite withdrawl symptoms. Steroids oftentimes give a person a false sense of wellbeing , but when they are discontinued there is a mental and physical withdrawl period. You didn't state whether he was on step down or not , which is usually the way, but even with that it does take a few days or maybe more than a few days for the body to adjust. When Mike was on steroids, he was totally mentally and physically wired and going off of them had the total opposite affect. It's a big adjustment for the body. My advice, is to insist on seeing the doctor especially due to the fact that there may be other issues involved. I do feel your frustration and will keep you in my prayers. Hope things improve soon. Sue

What I meant to way is that I'm proud to be part of this FAMILY!!!.

So proud and honored to know the two of you and to have you for my friends. Thank you for all you do. This is a well deserved honor.. Big Hugs!!! Love, Sue

Grace, You were telling us about her in chat last night and it really is a heartbreaking story. Of course, she has my prayers. I know this must be especially painful for you to be dealing with now too. I am so sorry. Love, Sue

Gwen, I would call the hospital and contact your Dad's doctor as well. This is totally wrong. I don't know where you live, but in my city things are coordinated much better than this... They would be looking at a lawyer's face if they did that to me. There's no other way to look at it , but to say this is inhumane and wrong.. Make noise and complain on your Dad's behalf. If you know it's wrong, it probably is. God Bless. Sue

Hi Karen, It's hard to believe it has been an entire year since David passed. It's good to hear that you and Faith are adjusting well. She sounds like such a little doll and a real blessing. God Bless the two of you. Love, Sue

I will never forget David. He was such an inspiration to so many. He lived life to the fullest. He gave his best to all of us. Heaven gained a good one for sure. Love, Sue

I just read your question and I was thinking that there is no easy answer to your question. Cancer is complicated and there are no two cases alike. There are no two people alike. People are in different physical conditions aside from their cancer. In other words, I think the answer to your question would be that every case is different. As for chemo treatment, the hope is always for a cure , but most of the time it is more realistic to hope for stability or remission. In a lot of cases , the disease would progress much more rapidly without the chemo. You have to remember that the longer a patient stays alive, there is always the chance for newer , more improved treatments to surface and ultimately a cure. I do believe that will happen . My best to your father and your family. Sue

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Shelly, You have been through more than your share of pain and grief. I am so thrilled to hear that you are so upbeat and looking forward to new adventures in your life. Please don't get too far away, we want to know how you are doing. Take care and God Bless. Sue

I missed this post yesterday, but I offer prayers for a rapid recovery. Jackie, we miss your , ever inpiring and loving posts. Hurry and Get Well so you can get back here with us real soon. Love, Sue

Nina, This is wonderful . You're an awesome lady and I'm so very happy for you . Love, Sue

Thanks for the update , Don. Just reading your words put a huge smile in my heart. The two of you are awesome . God Bless you and enjoy the Dallas bash. Love, Sue

We are blessed to have you Don and Lucie!!! Thank you from the bottom of my heart for all you do for all of us. Love, Sue

(((Carleen & Keith))) Love and Tons of Prayers, Sue

Frank, What can I say? I love your posts and your words have helped me in more ways than you can imagine. Thank you for being you. We love you. The next bud lite is on me.. Love, Sue

Don, Thank you for everything you do for us. From the first time I posted, I felt you kindness and support. 8,000 posts is a lot of sharing and giving and I think that makes you a pretty special person. Looking forward to the next 8,000 . Love, Sue

God Bless you Ann. You are such a special person. I may not always know what to say to your question, but I look forward to them... I borrowed a couple to share with another board I belong to. I'm sure you have said before, but do you make these up yourself? Thanks for the diversion which is much needed at times. Love , Sue

Tracy, This is fantastic news!!! I'm so happy for you . Your friend's analogy of "stopping the car" was a very good one. Sending prayers for a rapid reverse motion to follow.. Love and Prayers, Sue

Compassionate. What's rational, I think I've forgotten. Sue

Great pics, Anais and thanks for sharing them. Congratulations!!! Love, Sue

Continued prayers for your dad , Randy. The news is certainly sounding better. Sue

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This is a lovely tribute , Connie. Continued prayers for you and your family. Love, Sue