jendew Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Well, my father had his first oncology appt. today after learning that his cancer has returned. The doctor is not holding out much hope due to my dad's decreased lung function and pain management problems. In fact, he told us that given his current status he's concerned about how my father will make it the next few months. This, of course, was a big letdown for us. Daddy is not a candidate for more surgery or radiation, so chemo is our only option at this point. We have to make up our minds by Monday whether or not to try a clinical trial they're conducting at our cancer center. There are so many decisions to make. We've also got to prepare my mother for the months to come. Any and all prayers are appreciated. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 Prayers coming. Don't forget that there is ALWAYS hope. Maybe this clinical trial or any of the treatments they may try will help him keep going until they find THE TICKET to take care of things. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastCoastLadi Posted June 28, 2006 Share Posted June 28, 2006 I feel so bad about your dad, please don't give up, definitely talk w/ your dads' onc. about this and get his/her take on all of this and what are any and all options. I'm praying for your dad. Grace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dads girl Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Don't give up hope yet. Last year my dad was diagnosed with squamous cell carcinoma- the original oncologist gave him a year. He was not eligible for surgery or radiation. We are just passed the one year mark and he is currently stable---taking a break from chemo and still up and about. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Prayers your way. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angelofcharlie20 Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Don't give up. Sometimes a positive attitude is the best cure. Best to you and your family, Shirley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ztweb Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 I am so sorry to read your post. Your family has already been through so much. This is such a stressful time. I pray that your father has renewed strength, renewed health, and that your decision making is clear. God bless you. Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terriep Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Sending prayers your way......... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
meredith Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Sorry about your dad's recurrence. I hope that the decision making progress you are now faced with goes smooth for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Lamb Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Sorry to hear this.Keeping you and your family in our thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Know that my prayers are with you as you go through this difficult time. I hope you will soon have a plan and a direction to go in. Until that happens, it can be the most trying on everyone. God Bless, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dchurchi Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Prayers coming your way. If you go with the trial many more prayers that it will be a success. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted June 29, 2006 Share Posted June 29, 2006 Jenny: Check out cyberknife surgery. Your dad may be a candidate. Here is a link where you can ask radiation oncologists about your dad's situation. http://www.cyberknifesupport.org/forum/default.aspx?c=4 They are very helpful and answer within 24 hours. Here is a link to the manufacturer's web site where you can enter a state to find the nearest cyberknife center. http://www.accuray.com/SiteLocations/index.aspx I have cut and pasted the loctions in Florida from the above web page: CyberKnife Center of Miami 7867 North Kendall Drive #105 Miami, FL, 33156 USA Phone Main: (800) 204-0455 Phone Alt: (305) 279-2900 NCH Regional Cancer Institute Opening in July, 2004 733 4th Avenue North Naples, FL, 34102 USA CyberKnife Center of Palm Beach 10335 North Military Trail, Suite C West Palm Beach, FL, 33401 USA Phone Main: (561) 799-2828 Phone Alt: (877) 330-3339 Here is a link to a recent newes release about cyberknife in Cancer Compass News: http://www.cancercompass.com/cancer-news/1,11070,00.htm Don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hollyanne Posted June 30, 2006 Share Posted June 30, 2006 My thoughts are with you. I know how tough this -- all you can do is spend time together, honor your dad's wishes and pary for peace of mind and strength (which we all do for you!) I am so sorry you all are going through this...remember, each day as it comes, you will have strength to deal with each day as it comes.... Love to you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cmrsm Posted June 30, 2006 Share Posted June 30, 2006 My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Just keep on fighting and prove those doctors wrong, as so many others on this board have. God Bless Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted June 30, 2006 Share Posted June 30, 2006 Prayers sent you way. Never give up the chemo just might stabalize him. Keep a positive attitude and spend as much time as you can with him. Maryane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted June 30, 2006 Share Posted June 30, 2006 Saying prayers for your Dad and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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