Kerri Gottlieb Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 My Mom died at home 2 weeks ago (Feb. 15, 2009). It was really peaceful, like she just forgot to take a breath. Hospice was amazing. Over 300 people came to her wake and funeral. I am in awe of how many people's lives she touched. It was absolutely beautiful and I know she was smiling down at us. I washed and styled her wig the week before she died, gave them her makeup, pictures of her, a description, etc. and they did an amazing job. I even brought tweezers with me in case there was a stray hair or something. LOL Thankfully, she looked so natural and beautiful. If not, she would have come back and haunted me for sure!!! My job as a caretaker is over and I'm finding it difficult to even have the energy to look for a new job. So I am just sending out resumes and really thinking of going back to school to get my Masters, maybe in social work. My Dad and I (Mom's main caregivers) joined a Bereavement Support group through our church that started today. Unlike everyone else who can go back to their lives, it's different for us. For me, I guess I just feel a little lost. But I know it is only temporary. At least I have my husband. I cannot even imagine how my Dad feels. Just wanted to thank you all for the hope and info that you gave to both my Mom and myself for the last year and a 1/2. It really made us feel like we weren't alone and I cannot tell you what a difference it makes when you have HOPE. Without this message board and the people here, we never would have made it through this process. Thanks so very much! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 My deepest condolences and My heartfelt prayers! Things may be rough but soldier on as I say. if you need a shoulder to lean on or just want to vent we are always here for You and Dad as well. This is a very scary and new normal that is not fun at all. Hugs and Prayers! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patti B Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 (((((Kerri))))) I answered your other post but wanted to write something here, too. If you remember, your mom and I (and you) corresponded for a while and just recently I was wondering about her. Your mom always spoke of you as the most dedicated, amazing daughter. You gave up a lot of your life to spend with her when she was sick. She spoke of how you went back and forth between her house and yours week after week. She was so lucky to have a daughter like you. I am so saddened to hear of her passing. I wish you peace and strength in the coming days and weeks ahead. Please let me know if you need anything that I can help you with. PM me if you need to talk. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Hugs - Patti B. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsC1210 Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 ((((Kerri)))) Like Patti B, I have responded to your other post . I just wanted to reply here, too. I am just so sorry. My condolences and sympathy to you and your family. Hugs and Prayers Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fillise Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 Oh Kerri--I'm so sorry to read this news. I love that beautiful photo of you and your mom on your wedding day. Please know that my thoughts and prayers are with you and your dad. Susan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fillise Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 Patricia Gottlieb GOTTLIEB - Patricia, on February 15, 2009 at age 64 of Lynbrook, NY. Beloved wife of Andrew. Cherished mother of Kristopher (Angie), Kevin (Jen) and Kerri-Ann (Michael). Loving grandmother of Meghan, Brian, Joseph, Kristopher and Katy. Family will receive friends Wednesday 6-9pm and Thursday 2-4 and 7-9pm at the Perry Funeral Home Inc. 118 Union Ave. Lynbrook, NY. Mass Friday 10:45am at St. Raymond's RC Church East Rockaway, NY. Interment to follow at St. Charles Cemetery, Farmingdale, NY. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jyoung20 Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 I'm so sorry to hear this. You have my condolences and prayers fordealing with all of this. God Bless, Jamie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 Kerri, I am so sorry about the loss of your beautiful mom. She was so blessed to have had you and your dad with her. Know that we will be here if you need us as you go through this difficult time. Hugs, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 I am so very, very sorry for your loss. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sis Posted March 4, 2009 Share Posted March 4, 2009 Kerri, I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your Mom. She obviously raised a very wonderful daughter. I too, joined a grief support group after I lost my sister and found it to be very helpful. Sending prayers to your family. Ellie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Welthy Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 Kerri, I rarely check in anymore, but happened in this morning, and was shocked to read of your lovely Mom's passing. My sincere sympathy to you and the whole family. Patti was such a high-spirited, arse kicking and taking names kind of gal, with a wonderful sense of humor. I'm stunned. She was one of those that I thought would beat this beast. I admired her so much and am so sorry. You embody so much of your Mom's character. Remember this spark that will live in you always. I truly hope the path you are one now can bring you some peace and hope for the future. Do look after your Dad -- I'm glad to hear you both are going to bereavement sessions. It's a new world after this magnitude of a loss and one that I hope goes as smoothly as possible, as you deserve good things. You were a blessing to your Mom. God be with you sweetie. Many hugs, Welthy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
recce101 Posted March 12, 2009 Share Posted March 12, 2009 Blessings and Aloha to you, Kerri. Ned Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy Posted March 15, 2009 Share Posted March 15, 2009 I am so sorry, Wendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lc46 Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 I am so very sorry. Dar Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted March 16, 2009 Share Posted March 16, 2009 Kerri, my deepest condolence goes out to you and your family. Your mom was a wonderful soul who helped so many of us on here with her inspirational words. Your mom will always live on through you and all who loved her. I am so sorry for all you are going through. We are always here for you 24/7 I will miss her so much. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted March 26, 2009 Share Posted March 26, 2009 I am very sorry to see we lost our friend Patty. She was such a kind,caring, loving firend here at LCSC. She will be missed. My Sincere Sympathy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted March 27, 2009 Share Posted March 27, 2009 I am very sorry I missed this. My deepest sympathies to you and your dad. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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