Aims Posted August 21, 2004 Share Posted August 21, 2004 I've visited this site a few times but just registered tonight. I've been inspired, moved, educated & comforted by what I've read here! Thank you! I found out a month ago that the love of my life probably has lung cancer. X-rays show 4 small spots on his lung. He is an otherwise very healthy & young 43 years old, but is in total denial & not willing to have any more tests or start treatment. He refuses to talk about it & he hasn't confided in anyone other than me. I find myself slipping into denial as well, but realize I can't have that "luxury". I lost my precious mother to cancer less than 2 years ago & I won't let this hideous disease sneak into our lives again without a fight! I've tried everything I can think of to get him to snap out of it & go back to the doctor, but he just calmly deflects all of my attempts. I'm at a loss & so thankful to have a place to vent & gain insight. Thank you, again! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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