Fall54 Posted October 21, 2004 Share Posted October 21, 2004 Hi all, I talked with Cat just now and it was wonderful to hear her voice and talk with her. This was our first telephone call and I very much enjoyed it. She saw her doctor and yes, she has a large mass in her brain. She will be starting WBR (13 sessions) She will then wait a week and then begin another procedure ( I forget what it's called) that pinpoints the mass and works specifically on it. The difference I believe she said was the WBR works on the whole brain where the 2nd procudure or treatment works on the mass itself. She told her Doctor she was going to move to GA. but he said it could not wait. Cat, will remain living alone going through this. Her Sister from Ohio is going to fly in tommorow and be with her but I dont know how long she will be staying. Cat said she had to beg to get her Sister to come Please, please say your prayers for Cat. She feels (and she did not mention anyones name) that her biggest supporters on this board have deserted her. That is so sad. Talking to her, she is this sweet sweet woman who is dealing with all of this the best way she knows how and trying to do it all alone. This board is something Cat has come to for support and friendship I am sure. She needs us and my heart is invested in her. I want to be there for her and I hope you all will be too. Compassion is what is needed here and I always thought that is what this board showed people who needed them. I will say, I was away when all of this happened but that Cat has not told me anything or mentioned anyone by name in a way that was hurtful. I guess I am asking for this board to give this sweet woman your support, prayers and love. God Bless You All, Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted October 21, 2004 Share Posted October 21, 2004 I think you are a sweet sweet woman. I wonder, aren't there any resources local for people in this situation? She is a Buddist, don't they have some sort of support system? I rallied my father's church when he was alone in a crisis. There must be some group there that she feels kinship with. What about the local cancer groups? Just an idea - a phone card might really come in handy for her. I will PM you. Margaret Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Elaine Posted October 21, 2004 Share Posted October 21, 2004 Thanks Jane, I just opened an email from Cat, and I am sure you have done a better job explaining the treatments than I could. She did say also that they are makng her mask tomorrow. elaine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karenl Posted October 21, 2004 Share Posted October 21, 2004 Thank you so much, Jane. I hope that Cat knows how much she is cared about. Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail p-m Posted October 22, 2004 Share Posted October 22, 2004 Thanks for the update. Wanting Cat to know that I think about her often and am always looking for posts from her. Prayers and thoughts being sent to Cat during this very difficult time. Gail P-M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
osirus226 Posted October 22, 2004 Share Posted October 22, 2004 Jane, Thank you for the update. Cat-I am thinking of you and keeping you in my prayers. Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
K and Kids Posted October 22, 2004 Share Posted October 22, 2004 I am so sorry that Cat is going through this and alone. My prayers are with her and best wishes for success with the radiation procedures. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nushka Posted October 22, 2004 Share Posted October 22, 2004 Thanks for the update Jane. Cat, I want you to know that you are always in my prayers. I hope this WBR and the other procedure work wonders for you. I think of you each and every day. Nina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
draiocht_bean_si Posted October 22, 2004 Share Posted October 22, 2004 Jane is an extraordinary person. She only says good things about people, though I think she had tobite her tongue once or twice I like her. She is not a gossip. I like that. We are very lucky to have such a compassionate person helping this board. She deserves a lot of praise -- and I mean a lot. I honestly don't think people appreciate how much she helps -- not just money -- but with compassion. Thank you everyone who has and who is praying for me. thank you all the many compassionate people here. That tumor is creepy big. It is a wonder I am functioning. Thanks God. The Buddhist Church is very very small. Sadly some people seem to be there just to say they are Buddhists as though that is the thing to be right now. Buddhism is not a "thing to be". it must come from the heart. Cat I am still having much problems posting also, whenever I cat-- my name -- it types can't. boo hoo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karenl Posted October 22, 2004 Share Posted October 22, 2004 Hiya Cat Good to see you post! And glad that you were able to talk to Jane. This message board stuff is all well and good, but nothing takes the place of one-on-one conversation. I hope she helped to make you feel better. You're right, we are very lucky to have her. Continuing to send love and good wishes your way. Karen PS - I am still having trouble with the site too!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa O Posted October 22, 2004 Share Posted October 22, 2004 Thanks for the message! Cat remains in my heart and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haylee_38 Posted October 22, 2004 Share Posted October 22, 2004 Cat, you have and will continue to be in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jean44 Posted October 22, 2004 Share Posted October 22, 2004 Cat, Keeping you in my thoughts and prayers. Jean Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted October 22, 2004 Share Posted October 22, 2004 Jane, Thanks for posting the update. Cat: I am thinking and praying for you on a daily basis. Hang in there and keep the faith! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mhutch1366 Posted October 22, 2004 Share Posted October 22, 2004 Cat-- XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX Prayers always, MaryAnn Hang in there.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
-Cheryl- Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Cat, It is on a Fri. night and I ran to work to use my computer. I can't post at home, because I spilt coffee on my key board. My web tv is so old I can't find anyone makinf the key boards these days. I have been everywhere. Anyway, just want ed you to know I am saying prayers for you and keeping you close at heart. This treatment will work! LOve, Cheryl Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MayFrog Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Jane, thanks for the update, you are truly a very special, caring person! Cat..you're in my thoughts every single day..keep up the good fight Mary Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
draiocht_bean_si Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 deleted because it could be hurtful Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NellW Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Hi Cat, Have been in and out a lot the last few days and somehow missed this. I am so sorry about all you are going through. Prayers coming. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elnodel Posted October 23, 2004 Share Posted October 23, 2004 Dear Cat, I'm still catching up with everything. Jane was wonderful to post for you -- and let us find out all that was going on. And while I'm sorry that you're not on your way to your daughter's, I'm really relieved that you're being taken care of RIght Now -- it's about time that someone saw the urgency in your case. I hope your sister can stay with y ou for a while; are there people there in a cancer support group that could help as well? Trust to the medication to help you get through this and know that we're all thinking of, praying and pulling for you. Love, Ellen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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