Don Wood Posted December 16, 2006 Share Posted December 16, 2006 My daughter's birthday was 5 days after Lucie died. I gave her Lucie's engagement ring whose stone was my mother's. My only daughter is named for her two grandmothers. Some time ago, I had given Lucie a diamond solitaire pendant, which she wore all the time. I am going to give that to my daughter for Christmas. About 14 years ago, after we had been married 33 years, I gave Lucie an anniversary ring -- not for our anniversary but for that Christmas. She wore it all the time. I have given the ring to my married son, and he is having it resized to give his wife for Christmas. The picture I use here is a portrait Lucie and I had made last January. All of our children and grandchildren will get a copy of it for Christmas. I feel that Lucie, through all this, will be very much a part of this Christmas, and it helps me get through it better. I hope it will be good for my kids. As my spirits have lifted, I went to the mall for the first time in a long time, strolled the whole place, and bought myself some sport shirts. Whoo Hoo and Ho Ho Ho! OK. So that was a little faked, but I am feeling better about Christmas. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastCoastLadi Posted December 16, 2006 Share Posted December 16, 2006 (((Don))), I know Lucie is above you, looking down and smiling...you are such incredible strong spirit! Surrounded by the love of Lucie, your family and the many many friends you have here... Grace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nikkala Posted December 16, 2006 Share Posted December 16, 2006 Don, You are a truly incredible person.I believe the gifts to your children are perfect as I was once on the receiving end of that. So glad you got yourself a few gifts and maybe even enjoyed yourself just a little bit. I know Lucie is with you every day all day and Christmas will be no exception. Your family will all be in my thoughts this Holiday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joanie55 Posted December 16, 2006 Share Posted December 16, 2006 Don, What beautiful ways to include Lucie in the holidays. Your children will be so happy to receive such special gifts. Nothing could mean more. Reading this really made me glow inside knowing you've made this wonderful connection for them. Joan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted December 16, 2006 Share Posted December 16, 2006 (((Don))), You are no less than amazing to me. Of course Lucie will be a part of Christmas. She, most likely, is what made your Christmases your Christmases for so many years. And the gifts are just so very perfect. You were quite the GREAT gift-giver weren't you? What woman could not resist diamonds ......and they are passed on with special memories attached. You are such an example of great poise and dignity, Don. I must add courageous to that list.......even attempting the mall this time of year . We are privileged by your presence here. Fred and I are wishing this Christmas to be gentle for you ~ full of many comforting memories and love. I feel confident that the peace of this season has already found its way to your heart. Love, Kasey and Fred Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted December 16, 2006 Share Posted December 16, 2006 Don--The gifts are so perfect.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Joe B Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 what an awesome legacy you and Lucie have made together. Don, you have your thoughts in the right place, and I am glad to see that you are living on and continue to inspire all of us. Joe Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ztweb Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 Oh Don! Without a doubt Ms. Lucie will be with you this holiday and every holiday after. May you know God's peace! Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 Thanks Big Guy. Hope your surprise is good!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ernrol Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 Don, I'm sure Lucie will be part of Christmas for a long time to come. Stay positive, Ernie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 These gifts will be treasured and passed down to generations to come. It is going to be a wonderful holiday. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
j's girl Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 Don those are such perfect gifts. Even though it will be tough, you'll make some great memories that Lucie will be very proud of. Merry Christmas. Shauna Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tracey Huguley Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 Wow....such sweet and thoughtful gifts.... Love and hugs, Tracey Huguley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 very sweet indeed. When my grandfather died almost 20 years ago, I brought home a shirt of his after the funeral. I kept it all these years, and gave it to my son when he went off to college. He actually appeared at a picnic last spring wearing the shirt. My mother, aunt, and uncle were all there, and I told them the story of the shirt. It was a very touching moment for all of us, even the 20 year old. They will love the gifts/ gail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Jyoung20 Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 What a lovely thing to do...I'm sure your kids will cherish them always... Wishing you the best this holiday season. GOD BLESS YOU!!! Jamie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teresag Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 I've been thinking of you, Don. This Christmas has got to be difficult for you and so many others on this board. So glad that you are still experiencing Lucie's love in your family this holiday season. Wishing you many more, Teresa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharonjo Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 Don, What a lovely thing to do. Of course your children will cherish these most precious gifts from their beloved mother. I am sure Lucie will be right there with you all as you celebrate the holidays this year and every year. God Bless, Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 I am thinking of you this holiday season. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamasbabygirl Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 What wonderful gifts Don. Merry Christmas to you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted December 17, 2006 Share Posted December 17, 2006 Dear Don How wonderful of you to give those gifts of Lucie love and that lovely portrait to give to your children that is PRICELESS!! I know Lucie will be right there on Christmas with her family and smiling down on all of you. Your holiday will be bittersweet as you will be with that wonderful family of yours surrounded by their love and the new tiny life of your new sweet grandaugher. (((((((((DON))))))))) Wishing you the best, may peace be with you. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Littlegirl Posted December 18, 2006 Share Posted December 18, 2006 Precious gifts! Don - you are an incredible man! Your couragous spirit through Lucie's illness and death was inspiring and your positive attitude and special ways of remembering Lucie and celebrating her life now that she is gone is simply amazing. I bet your children are so proud of the parents that raised them! Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geri Posted December 18, 2006 Share Posted December 18, 2006 What great memories those gifts will bring, your kids are so fortunate that you and Lucie are their parents. Take care, Geri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted December 18, 2006 Share Posted December 18, 2006 Don, You give with love and all will be cherished by your children, will be easier for you to see those gifts on your children than in a box........... I gave most of all the souvenirs I had from my grandmother and my mother to a friend in New Zealand so she can pass them to her own children later. Got a picture of her with her daughter wearing the rings and pendants of my mother. Have a nice Christmas. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted December 19, 2006 Share Posted December 19, 2006 Very nice Don. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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