nikkala Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 I am asking for prayers for my Gram. She has Adenocarcinoma IV with mets to liver, adrenal, vocal cord and I think maybe brain. She has chosen no treatment other than pain control and things are getting real tough. She is not eating anymore other than a little ensure. She was vomiting all day yesterday and is starting to get confused. She is also having alot of pain which the meds don't completely help. Please pray that the Good Lord will come and wrap his loving arms around my Gram and take her home. She is really starting to suffer and it is unbearable to watch. She is at peace with dying and just doesn't want to continue on like this. Please pray for her. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 I am sorry your Grandma is having a hard time. I know she doesn't want treatment but there are things they could give her to make her more comfortable. Maybe you could ask her doctor. I wish you all the best...and a good journey home for your grandmother. Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anais Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 I know people who loose their appetite could take 'Decadron' (cortisone). You should ask the Dr. I could help her eat more. Good luck! I'm thinking about you both... Anaïs Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Lamb Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 Prayers for Gram on the way. I agree with Ry,mabe there can be some way to ease or control her pain more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 Sorry to hear about your Grandma. Prayers for the best. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Haylee_38 Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 Prayers for grandma. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna G Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 Prayers going up for Grandma. Donna G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nikkala Posted January 29, 2005 Author Share Posted January 29, 2005 Thank you all. I will call the Onc mon morn to ask if he can give her something for the nausea and also if maybe the pain patch would be better for controlling her pain. We have not yet signed up with hospice as she doesn't want a stranger coming into her home. I think I will be relieved when they get involved as I will have someone to ask questions and stuff. Thank you all for your prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shadowrose Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 Thank you all. I will call the Onc mon morn to ask if he can give her something for the nausea and also if maybe the pain patch would be better for controlling her pain. We have not yet signed up with hospice as she doesn't want a stranger coming into her home. I think I will be relieved when they get involved as I will have someone to ask questions and stuff. Thank you all for your prayers. HI The oncologist office should have someone on call for the weekend. See if you can call and get some phenegran ordered for her for the nausea. It's available in suppositories as well as pills. It's possible that the confusion is from METS, but it's also possible that it's due to oxygen deprivation. Another thing to consider- although she wants no one there- is she mentally capable of making that decision right now? I know that's a tough call to make for you, but you might need to consider whether she needs someone there even if she doesn't want them to be. Call Hospice anyway- even if it's for your own benefit. If the end is near, it can be made a lot more comfortable for her! Duragesic pain patches might be a consideration. They last 48-72 hours, and shouldn't add to her nausea. Hugs and prayers Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 Prayers for your Gram. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharyn Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 I am so sorry you are going through this. I agree with everything ShadowRose wrote. Maybe Gram is not in the best mental state to be making any decisions... although I know you are trying to do exactly as she wishes, you may have to make some decisions on your own that you know will be to her benefit. I know once my Dad got very close to the end he was very confused... he didn't know if he was in a hospital, or at home...etc. Thank God he suffered no pain, but the confusion alone was heartbreaking so I can only imagine what you must be going through. Please know I am thinking of you and praying that God welcomes Gram soon and does not let her suffer anymore. Love, Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 Prayers for Nikkala's gram. Please give ease to the burden of gram's suffering and the suffering of gram's family. Give them courage and strength as you welcome this sick woman into your heavenly arms. Above all give them peace. Thy will be done. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paddy Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 Nikkala, I am so sorry to hear about your Gram. My husband resisted "Hospice" too, and I am sorry in a way because I have heard so many good reports about it. I am sure it would help your Gram with her comfort and peace of mind and your families peace of mind too. Prayer's coming for your Gram and all your family, Love Paddy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 Nikkala, May you and your grandma find peace and comfort. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 I will b epraying for peace and comfort to you and yours. Wendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 I also recommend you call the doctor on call and Hospice. Hospice was wonderful for my MIL even though she only lived 1 day with Hospice. It made her feel so much better. Take care. I am praying for peace and comfort for all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 Nikkala, I, too, agree with Shadowrose. I know it seems like you should respect your gram's wishes, but sometimes we do have to just take control. I will definitely pray for your grandma. Love, Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Justakid Posted January 29, 2005 Share Posted January 29, 2005 So sorry about your Grandma! Hope that the doctor can get things under control on Monday! Your in my thoughts and prayers! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 I pray for comfort for your Gram. I would call the onc on call and get some help or take her to the ER, severe pain is an emergency. Bless you. Margaret Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SBeth Posted January 30, 2005 Share Posted January 30, 2005 Lisa, I have no additional advice, but want you to know that I am praying for you and your gram! Love, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nikkala Posted January 31, 2005 Author Share Posted January 31, 2005 Thank you all for your replies and your prayers. I called the Oncs office this morning and they said since they didn't give her anything that would make her sick she would have to call her general doc. I was really upset about this but anyway I got her in to see her Gen doc and he gave her an antinausea liquid med and also the pain patch. He is calling hospice today so they should be in in the next couple of days. He said he can handle everything thru his office since she is not getting any treatments so I canceled her next onc appt and will just call the Gen doc if we need anything else but I imagine once hospice comes in they will help with things. Thank you all again. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rogfam Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 I'm so sorry your Gram is suffering like this. I'm praying for the Lord to wrap His loving arms around you all and bring comfort and peace as only He can. (((hugs))) and prayers for you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathyr Posted January 31, 2005 Share Posted January 31, 2005 My prayers and love to your Gram. I hope heaven opens up soon for her. What a great granddaughter she has! Hugs to you too! CathyR Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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