shelliemacs Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 we lost my Father in Law on Saturday. He went very quickly and without details. Not so peacefully. His battle is over and again we are back into not only grieving, but utter HATE of cancer. It feels like cancer has a vendetta against me but its too chicken to hit me but takes all the people around me. I have skipped right over grief and am well into RAGE against cancer. enough is enough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 Shelly, I am so sorry. Don't let this god awful disease do any more harm to you, don't let it take another victim in your family. Shelly be kind to yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daggiesmom Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 So, so sorry for you and your family. It just ISN'T fair. Too much loss. ((())) & prayers for you. Joanie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
terriep Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 Shellie- This really sucks! I am so sorry for your family and your loss. Continued prayers, Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathy Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 Once again Shellie I am so very sorry..Youre right ENOUGH IS ENOUGH.. (((Shellie))) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 I am so very sorry... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 Shelly, sorry for the loss of your FIL. You are right, your family has been devestated with so much grief from this horrific desease. Do not let it get to you. I know you are the one who has gone through all of this torture and I would feel the same as you. But you have to take care of yourself so these thing will not get to you. We all have to fight and to let the public know, this cannot go on we have to get early detection for this monster. It just cannot keep claiming lives like it has. Please accept my condolences to your husband and his family. I pray for strength for you and them during these difficult times ahead. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berisa Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 I am terribly sorry. It must be very frustrating. Somehow we just don't know why... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 Dear Shelly, I too am so very sorry to here this news. Oh how I know how you feel! Enough really is ENOUGH! Your in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bbays Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 I am so sorry. Barb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patkid Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 Father, please wrap Shelly and her family in your loving arms and hold her tightly. Love Pat and Brian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fay A. Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 I'm sorry, Shelly. And you are correct. Enough IS enough. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharyn Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 Shelley, I am so very sorry... I know those words don't help an awful lot right now.... just know I am praying for you and your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
paddy Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 So very sorry Shellie. My thoughts and prayers are with you all. Paddy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 Shelly, Right - ENOUGH! You have had YOUR share plus more. I am praying for you strength to crawl out from under the control of this horrendous disease and be able to live freely. You deserve much love and happiness -nothing else. So MANY positive thoughts coming your way! Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 Shelly, my heart goes out to you. So sorry you have had to go through so much. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Remembering Dave Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 Shellie, I wish there was something I could say or do that would take the hurt away or make it better but there isn't. I feel so bad for you, and for your husband and their whole entire family. this is just awful. please take care of yourselves, and TRUST IN THE LORD as He is the only one who will get you through this. Lots of love, Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kris Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 I'm so sorry... Kris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna G Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 So sorry---hugs and prays for you and your family, Shellie. Donna G Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 Oh, Shelly, I am so sorry. Margaret Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted April 25, 2005 Share Posted April 25, 2005 So sorry, you are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea B. Posted April 26, 2005 Share Posted April 26, 2005 Oh Shelly, I am so very sorry. I have tears in my eyes from all you have had to endure. I am thinking of you. so sorry... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted April 26, 2005 Share Posted April 26, 2005 Dear Shelly, I am so sad to read this bad news. You poor dear. You are way too young to have had so much in such a short time. Usually these things are more spread out over our lives. I, too, have had a lot of losses in my life, but not all at once like you have. They haven't all been from the same disease, a couple from cancer, and the rest from other diseases, but all just as devastating. To have so much happen in such a short period of time would knock anybody on their butt. Hang in there, honey. Better days are ahead. Love and prayers, Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilyjohn Posted April 26, 2005 Share Posted April 26, 2005 Shelly I am so sorry for your most recent loss. It seems sometimes like certain families are targeted for tragedy. I pray this is the last loss you will have for many many years and the very last you suffer because of this beast. As the others have said it is time for someone to set up and take notice and do more to prevent this monster from growing more. There has to be a way to find more of the causes and ways to control this beast. Seems that somehow LC always gets lost in the shuffle when research and new treatments are needed most. Again my heart goes out to you and your family. Lillian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nikkala Posted April 26, 2005 Share Posted April 26, 2005 I am so very sorry Shellie. I totally understand your rage and feelings. I lost my Gram a month ago and didn't grieve at all, am just so da--ed mad all the time. Does seem like some families are just cursed by this stuff huh? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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