Cellar Door Posted September 15, 2005 Author Share Posted September 15, 2005 Thank all of you so very much. Hurts a lot today, so many calls and now invited to dinner at his sister's house. Not sure I will feel welcome, nor that I will be able to eat. I have been retching since yesterday afternoon. I was just around and thought I remembered him posting here. He did. Under the nick of Mercer. His one post can be found here http://lchelp.org/community/viewtopic.php?t=12820 Funny in reading that... the medical 'doctor' friend he is referring to is me. He always thought I should have been a doctor. Just strange to see his words. Maybe it will give you all a better picture of my sweet man. Heh, he lied a bit about his age, but I guess he is allowed Had a visit with the grief counselor today, I was OK for that. The crying is coming in spurts and very hard. I curl up with the dog and she licks my tears away. She is hurting too... keeping watch out the front window for her daddy's return. Reading his words gives me a warm feeling... I can hear him saying them in my ear as if it were happening right now. Be back around later. Thanks again... thank you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted September 15, 2005 Share Posted September 15, 2005 Sending prayers and hugs your way, so very sorry for yourloss. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharyn Posted September 15, 2005 Share Posted September 15, 2005 Please know you are in my prayers.... I am so very sorry... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kitkathi Posted September 15, 2005 Share Posted September 15, 2005 I am so sorry for your loss.... Kathi Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted September 15, 2005 Share Posted September 15, 2005 I am so very sorry . Please accept my heartfelt sympathy. Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jdjenkins Posted September 15, 2005 Share Posted September 15, 2005 I'm very sorry for your loss. God Bless You. Denise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gerbil runner Posted September 15, 2005 Share Posted September 15, 2005 I'm so sorry. May you be surrounded by warm, caring people in the difficult days ahead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melindasue37 Posted September 15, 2005 Share Posted September 15, 2005 I'm so sorry to hear your loss....praying for strength to carry you through. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babesdaughter Posted September 16, 2005 Share Posted September 16, 2005 My heart is breaking for you....I'm so sorry for your loss. I'm glad that you have your dog there to lick your tears, they do have such a sense for what we need..... You're in my thoughts.... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chloesmom Posted September 16, 2005 Share Posted September 16, 2005 I'm so sorry for your loss. Cindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rogfam Posted September 16, 2005 Share Posted September 16, 2005 I'm so sorry. Keeping you in my prayers, for comfort, peace, and joy. ((hugs)) Christy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Susan Posted September 16, 2005 Share Posted September 16, 2005 I am so sorry- so very, very sorry- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancy c Posted September 16, 2005 Share Posted September 16, 2005 I am so very sorry. I pray you to have comfort and strenght during this most difficult time. Nancy C Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kaffie Posted September 16, 2005 Share Posted September 16, 2005 So very sorry to read your post, what a heartbreaking thing for you to go through, I can't imagine Kathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Leslie221 Posted September 16, 2005 Share Posted September 16, 2005 So sorry for the hurt, the shock, the confusion. You were there for him. You gave him the love and comfort he wanted. Sending you all caring thoughts and strength. We are always here when you need to talk. Leslie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
BeckyCW Posted September 17, 2005 Share Posted September 17, 2005 I'm so very sorry. BeckyCW Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall54 Posted September 17, 2005 Share Posted September 17, 2005 I too, am so sorry for you're loss. He will never really be gone with all those wonderful memories in you're heart and I do believe that you will one day be together again in God's kingdom where life is eternal. God bless you, Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea B. Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 I am so very sorry for your loss. My heart goes out to you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berisa Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 i am so so sorry about your loss. But your husband was passed away in such a peaceful manner with great dignity. He passed away after the meal that everything was happening so normal, so natural. My deepest sympathies are with you, your husband was invited to another better place and were given a pair of wings. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathy Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 I am so so sorry..Your love and sadness comes through so clearly in your post..Praying that you may find some peace and healing... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trishnmiller Posted September 18, 2005 Share Posted September 18, 2005 I have been away from the board so I just saw your post. I am so very very sorry. There is only heartache for you now but prayers for healing and peace in the near future. He is truly at rest now. Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ma's kid Posted September 19, 2005 Share Posted September 19, 2005 Lighting a candle and I am so sorry for your loss. Libby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sandoster Posted September 20, 2005 Share Posted September 20, 2005 I am so sorry to hear of your tremendous loss. My thoughts will be with you along with all these other folks. This is a comforting place to come. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted September 24, 2005 Share Posted September 24, 2005 Please accept my condolences on your loss. Don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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