bunny Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 I just spoke with Pat. Brian is not leaving the hospital today. the tumor on his liver is growing rapidly, and the doctor is starting him on Alimta immediately. radiation is not an option. because they can not leave him on the IV pain medication he's on now, they are switching him to a pain patch for his abdomen. Pat is understandably worried about the impact of Alimta, but, as the doctor said,"it's all we have left". Pat & Brian will not be able to travel for Pat's son's wedding in Florida this weekend. like their parents, the kids sound like amazing people, and are graciously accepting and understanding of it all, albeit disappointed. of course, Pat and Brian are also extremely disappointed but the doctor wants to start the Alimta immediately and she,understandably, isn't comfortable leaving him. Pat asks for prayers, of course, and told me to tell everyone that she appreciates our love and support. Pat, we're with you honey, standing there, shoulder to shoulder. Brian, you are a brave soldier and I love and admire your fight. xoxo bunny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SDianneB Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 I hate to hear this kind of news, but thanks so much for the update. Brian & Pat -- hang in there. You are both in my thoughts and prayers. Di Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Addie Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Rats...I so hoped Bri would rally quickly and they'd be able to make the wedding...but the kids know they are there in heart and spirit. Thanks, Bun, for the update and be sure you express to Pat and Bri how much we all love them and are pulling for Alimta to WORK and not cause any additional problems. Dammit....this is a tough one. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KarHart Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 I am so sorry to hear this. I hope the Alitma can stop the progression. Hoping and praying for an immediate response. Karen H Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Bunny, Thank you for checking. This news is so sad, I hope the Alimta offers Brian some hope. Missing the wedding is also sad, I hope they get a videotape of the whole thing and can sit together and enjoy it. Love and prayers to Pat and Brian. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Thanks for posting this update, although it isn't the kind of news we were hoping to hear. Pat...you and Brian are so special and are in our thoughts and prayers! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lindseysmom Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Thank-you Bunny for the update. Please let Pat and Brian know that my prayers are with them. Best Wishes, Dee Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Guest Lensiedel Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Pat and Brian, I'm so sorry that you are unable to attend the wedding. Praying that the Alimta works and Brian is feeling better soon. Wendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dchurchi Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Amie, thanks for the update on Pat and Brian. This is sad news. Pat and Brian, my thoughts and prayers are with you through this tough time. Praying the Alimta works quickly. Debbie Husband Alan DX small cell lung cancer Jan 10th 2005 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamasbabygirl Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Thanks for the update Amie. Pat and Brian, I am praying that Alimta wipes away the tumor growth and pain for him ASAP. I am sorry you have to miss the wedding. Hang in there guys. We are all pulling for you both!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daggiesmom Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Prayers for strength and healing, Brian & Pat. I'm with you all the way. Joanie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Continuing to pray for both of you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 I hope the Alimta does the trick and stops the liver tumor. Sorry they will miss the wedding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 My heart is breaking. I pray the Alimta does the same thing for Brian as it has done for Trish's husband, Jeffrey. PLEASE GOD!! Love, Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LynneH Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Pat and Brian, Hang in there. Let's give that Alimta a chance to kick in and stop the tumor in it's tracks. Meanwhile, rest, breathe, rest, breathe........ You have raised some truly remarkable children that sound amazingly warm-hearted, just like the two of you. Thanks so much for the update Bunny. Love you Brat, Lynne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melindasue37 Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Amie, Thanks again for the update. Pat, I am so sad to hear that Brian is in the hospital. But, sometimes it is the best place to be. They can figure out exactly what Brian needs to start feeling better. You must have some really great kids. Doesn't surprise me a bit though. I am still praying and praying...I'm NOT gonna stop until we hear Brian is home where he should be!!!! Warm Hugs, Melinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TAnn Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Pat, I just walked in the door from having my 5th Alimta treatment. I hope and pray that Brian doesn't have any reactions. They have to start him on Folic Acid, which I take in a regular daily vitamin and give him a B-12 shot. The Alimta drip only lasts 10 minutes. They give you a dose of decadron before that and then it's over! That's the best part! Keep us posted. TAnn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 ((((Pat and Brian)))), So many, many of my most heartfelt prayers are being offered up for you both. I pray for a positive response to Alimta. I pray for strength of body, mind, and soul to get through this part of your journey. Please be able to feel my love and support. Love, Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kel M Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Continued prayers for Pat and Brian. I hope the Alimta works well and shows immediate results. Hang in there. Kel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calintay Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Many prayers for Pat and Brian! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Prayers for all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Thanks Amie for the update. My thoughts and prayers for the best. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Thanks for the update , Bunny, Pat and Brian, my prayers continue for the two of you. I know you are disappointed about not being at the wedding, but it's not the important thing right now. Giving Brian every chance to fight this cancer needs all your strength. Praying that Alimta will be the chemo he needs. It has been known to work magic for many. Take care and know that there is lots of love, prayers and positive thoughts coming your way. Love and Prayers, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ma's kid Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Thanks so much for the update, Bunny. They both have been on my mind all day. Please tell them my prayers and love are with them...praying for a miracle. Libby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hopeandstrength Posted October 18, 2005 Share Posted October 18, 2005 Prayers to you both. Thanks, Amie. Cathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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