Hi, Michael, and a hearty welcome! Sorry you have to battle this disease at such a young age. You are the same age as my youngest child (of 3). My wife also has NSCLC, Stage IV. The major tumor, when discovered, was on her upper spine at C7-T1. She also had four other bone mets on rib, skull, hip and leg. The spinal damage caused her to lose some function in her left hand (fortunately, she is right-handed), but she has no other functional problem from that. She received radiation to the spine, hip and leg while undergoing chemo. That took care of the original bunch.
She has had to have radiation several times since as well as another chemo protocol. She is now 2 1/2 years out and going strong. We battle and battle and win each one so far.
There is plenty of info and warm support here so take advantage of that. Good luck to you. Don