Hi Flo, welcome to lchelp. When your husband gets a treatment plan implemented, things will settle down a bit. I think I was in a state of disbelief about my diagnosis for a year or longer. I just went through the steps to treat my disease in the midst of my shock and disbelief. I don't think any of us ever thought we would get lc. I know I sure didn't. So, it is treatable, much like a chronic disease for the later stages. I think there are some who start out at 3b and end up proceeding to NED.
Here are some links. I could not find a NCI approved comprehensive cancer center for Georgia. The closest one appears to be in Birmingham:
http://www3.ccc.uab.edu/
There is a cancer center in your neck of the woods that seems to be pretty good. It is at Marietta, Georgia. It is not NCI approved, but that does not necessarily mean it is not a good center.
http://www.wellstar.org/ws_content/ws_h ... ic_id=1328
Don M