Jean,
I just wanted to add, before I lost my dad I would never go into the grieving forum because I couldnt bare the sadness, honest I never went in once at least I dont think I did.. After he passed I remember telling Katie "grieving" and "for those who have lost a loved one" were the only places I felt comfortable..Now, losing a special dad I know how that feels..I really only respond were I think I can somehow ease someones pain if only for a minute and at this point all I know is grieving...
My point is please dont take it that nobody cares, sometimes we just dont know what to say..
I am glad your day was ok or as well as can be expected..I couldnt wait until my dads anniversary day was over..