Rick Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Kate's Dad doesnt appear to be doing too well. Kate spent the day at the hospital with her dad and family. It appears that on top of the Mets to the liver and shoulder, they have determined that he does in fact have brain mets. We were not sure if this was caused by the Oxycotton pain meds for his shoulder or what. It turned out to be the or what. This was all so quick, as her father has clear lungs and all seemed to be going well as recent as 3 weeks ago and then kaboom, all at once mets mets mets mets..... He has 2 appointments tommorrow to his oncologist then to the radiation DR to see what can be done. As most of you all know, Kate is her dads primary person for all the DR. Visits and consultations, however Kate has started a new job and I think this is killing her that she cannot be there with him at each visit. She does manage to be there at most. These 2 visits tommorrow are definitely the most important visits other than in the beginning and She is trying to get time off to attend. She is more than shaken by all the horrible news. Usually I have to battle her for computer time and today she is avoiding it as I think it is too hard right now to read the posts. We are planning a huge anniversary party for her parents in 10 days and hopefully this can happen, but looks somewhat bleak at the moment. I guess we need to have chins up and hope for the best!! I would have to say, Kate is the best Daughter a dad could hope for and has been completely strong and confident throughout this ordeal, today was the 1st discouragment that I have seen from her since the initial diagnosis shock... Well, enough rambling, I off to bed. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Carolsdaughter Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Oh Rick, Hold Katie tight tonight she needs you. My heart is breaking for you guys. I wish I knew how to make it all better. I wish there was a cure and people didn't have to suffer. Remember that he has bounced back before and he was just singing a day or so ago. I'll still be praying for all of you. Hugs, Shelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David P Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Hey Rickey. We're all praying for Jessee and Katie. You're right about the best daughter a dad could have. I think about my relationship with my daughters when I read her posts and most of the time I end up cryingwhen I think of the strong bond they have together.Good luck with everything. Take care. David P. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anniemac Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Rick, how awful for Katie after being our cheerleader all this time. She has changed my attitude a few times over the last few months; but this must be very hard for her. Jessie is a fighter and has come back from adversity before and can do it again. Please know that we are praying for all of you and keeping good thoughts headed toward Texas. Annie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mday Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Sorry to hear about any bad news concerning your Dad. He is a lucky man to have such a caring daughter like you. Both of you will be in my thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathy Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Praying for Jessie, Katie and her precious family Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lynn Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Katie and Rick, I'm so sorry...you and your family are in my prayers Lynn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Donna D Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Our thoughts and prayers are with you, Katie and her Dad. We hope to hear some good news soon. Dona Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eileen Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Katie and Rick so sorry to hear of this latest set-back---hopefully the radiation will take care of the mets Eileen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shelliemacs Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Katie & Rick, I so understand your pain. Please know you are not alone in your hard times. I don't know at this point what good my praying does anymore since my mom right now is very bad as well. But I will continue to pray for them and all of us. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
marta Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Praying for you, Katie and her beloved father. Katie is an awesome daughter who has gone above and beyond the call of duty many times over. Hoping to hear good news Laura Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daggiesmom Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Dear Katie, Jesse & family, You are in my thoughts and prayers today. God bless you. Joanie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Rick and Katie, my heart is heavy and you do have my prayers. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Candy Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Please let Katie know that there are lots of extra prayers and thoughts for her and Jesse. I am just hating to hear this bad news. We are thinking about you guys!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
norme Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 To All, I pray that Jesse does not suffer anymore, that Katie and Rick have the strength to do as Jesse wishes....God be with you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debaroo Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Rick and Katie, I wish I knew what to say...I just hope that somehow, knowing that you are in the thoughts and prayers of so many right now, is of a comfort to you all. Please try to keep us posted regarding your family. Take care, Deb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Rick, Thanks for updating us on Katie and her dear father. I know how difficult it is to come online when your own loved one is suffering. I pray for relief for all of you and especially a turn around for Jesse. Blessings to you all, Peg Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kimblanchard Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Rick & Katie I am just sick about this news, but I will be praying for Jesse and for all of you that he may have the strength to keep fighting the fight. Will be praying that radiation will take care of the mets. Thoughts and prayers are with all of you Bess B Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fresca Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Oh Katie and Rick- I tooo am praying. I'm sorry. I m so sorry for the disheartening news. GOSH THIS DAMN DISEASE!!! Rana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Karma1976 Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Katie and rick!!! I am so so sorry honestly to be hearing this. PLEASE keep us posted!!!!! My thoughts and prayers are with you guys and your dad katie!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carlton Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Hoping and praying for the best for Jesse. You truly are a very special daughter.Wishing you all the best also. Take Care of yourself. Carlton Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea B. Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Rick, I am so very sorry to hear about Katie's Dad. She truly is an amazing daughter with a tremendous amount of strength. Please let her know I am praying for her dad and thinking of her. I wish I could make everyone's pain go away!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail p-m Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 Thanks for updating us about Katie's Dad. So sorry to hear that the road is so rough right now. But as others have said, Katie's Dad has fought back before when the odds weren't in his favor. My prayers being sent his way that he can again fight back and win. My thoughts, of course, are with Katie too who has fought alongside her Dad every step of the way. What a fabulous daughter! Please keep us posted. Gail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
JudyB Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 What sad news. My thoughts are with all of you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
bobmc Posted August 4, 2003 Share Posted August 4, 2003 uhh Rick, I'm so, so sorry. Please give Katie a hug from all of us. Know that you are all in my thoughts and prayers. God bless and be well Bobmc- NSCLC- stageIIB- left pneumonectomy- 5/2/01 " absolutely insist on enjoying life today!" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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