Flowergirlie Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 My grandma passed away and I am headed out for her funeral. It has opened the floodgates because not only do I have the loss of my hubby and best friend and soulmate, all in one wonderful being, it feels so devastating to lose someone else and he is not here to hold me and comfort me this time. As if there are not enough concepts for me to be dealing with already, another loss seems overwhelming to have to absorb. It is a harsh reality but I suppose that is how life is. Peace...Flowergirlie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Big Hugs, thoughts Prayers and Condolences for this loss. I know its hard but hang in there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsC1210 Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Melinda I am so very sorry. Please accept my sincere condolences on the loss of your grandma. Sending prayers for comfort and strength Christine Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DanaBrooke Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 I am sorry you have to deal with this. How much can one take!? My dad is sick now- a shock- had open heart surgery- never had any issues before. I feel just like you- ENOUGH ALREADY!! Well, if anyone can make it tho all this stufff I know it will be you. Wishing you the best!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 You put it well, Melinda................the realities of life are harsh indeed. Why some must face more of it than others I would desperately love to know. I'm glad you came here.............maybe we can prop you up ~ just a little perhaps. I'm so sorry. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 THe first subsequent loss is hard...because you relive to an extent the last one. So sorry about your grandmother. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastCoastLadi Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 (((Melinda))) I know, I often ask, how much an one person take? and you know I also know, all to very well, just being here by myself, it's hard and not fair, you know I'm here for you.. Grace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamataca Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 I wish we could be there for you in more than an electronic way. I admire you and how you take care of things, but everyone hits a breaking point. Peaceful vibes being sent your way. Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Melinda, The year my Mom died we lost five other people that were very special to us... And it hurt so badly. I understand a little of the feelings you must be having. I'm so sorry. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fillise Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 ((((Hugs)))) I know it's not the same, but we will support you through this. Susan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Mskim Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Im so sorry... it is too much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
hockeyma Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 Sorry about your loss Melinda...positive energy your way. Heather Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dtay Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 (((Melinda))) Thinking of you and your family, love Dawn Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sonia Owen Posted June 21, 2007 Share Posted June 21, 2007 I was so sorry to read your mail,about your Granmother passing away. It's just not fair. I often hear myself asking why did this have to happen in such away. There has to be a answer somwhere,but I can't always seem to find what I want to hear. My thoughts are with you, like so many others on this site. Take care,and you and the boys lean on each other for awhile. Lots of Love Sonia,Trevand a special woof from Ash xxxxxxx Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea Posted June 22, 2007 Share Posted June 22, 2007 I am so sorry Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
crystleshoe Posted June 22, 2007 Share Posted June 22, 2007 I am so sorry that you have to deal with this on top of everything else you have dealt with. I am sorry that you don't have your best friend to help you thru but he will be there in your heart. Wishing you strenght and better days ahead Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
missyk Posted June 22, 2007 Share Posted June 22, 2007 Melinda...I'm so sorry. I wish I could say something to ease your pain...but there are no words. Prayers for peace and comfort... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted June 22, 2007 Share Posted June 22, 2007 (((Melinda))), I am so very sorry . My condolences and prayers to you and the family. Love, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted June 22, 2007 Share Posted June 22, 2007 My deepest condolences. Sometimes life just doen't seem fair. I am so sorry especially that you husband cannot be there to comfort you. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Sis Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 ((Flowergirlie)), I'm so sorry to hear about the loss of your Grandmother. You've been through so much, this must be so hard to take. Wishing you peace and lots of hugs from those who care about you. Ellie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nova Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 Someone must think you have some very strong shoulder's, because you're being put thru *bleep* lately. I'm so sorry to hear about your Grandma. I had one Grandma that was as mean as a snake, and one that was the very best in the world.It broke my heart when she passed away... Please know I'm thinking of you. Nova Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Beth R Posted June 30, 2007 Share Posted June 30, 2007 So sorry Flowergirlie. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bev'sSister Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 It sure seems you are being tested Melinda. I am so sorry you are having to endure such heartbreak. I wish I knew why some have more pain than others. Why me, really doesn't do any good if you don't get an answer. I hope all of this has happened for a very good reason that we just don't understand right now. I wish you peace. Love, Bobby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tiredmom959 Posted July 1, 2007 Share Posted July 1, 2007 Just want to add my prayers and best wishes that you can get through this time ... I know you will. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
wendyr Posted July 2, 2007 Share Posted July 2, 2007 Hugs, Melinda. I'm so sorry you have to go through this. Thinking of you. God Bless wendyr Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Recommended Posts
Join the conversation
You can post now and register later. If you have an account, sign in now to post with your account.