Ry Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 I spoke with both Dean and Gay tonight. Dean has a bowel impaction. He has decided not to have the impaction cleared, which means he does not have much longer. He told me that he has had enough, but he is OK and to tell you all he will be OK. Gay had to fire their home aide so she has no help. She is doing it all. This is very hard and heartbreaking. My heart breaks for what they both are going through. She also asked that those of you that may have called or wish to call -- call in the late afternoon or evening. Just a side note: When I post for Dean and or Gay I am always very careful to post only what they ask me to post (those that read a recently deleted post will understand what I am saying). I take careful notes and try not to violate their privacy. I wish you peace soon Dean. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Thanks, Ry. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Thanks for the update Rochelle. Very sorry to here that about Dean and Gay. My thoughts and prayers are with the both of them in this most difficult of times. Richard Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Ry, My heart is breaking and yet almost soaring as I bid Dean on to a higher plane of pain free and joyous days. If Dean says he will be all right, then I do have to believe him. I am a better person because of the courage of Dean and Gay. And all of us here. God love ya, Dean and Gay! Cindi o'h Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
luvmydog2 Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 I am sad to hear this news. Dean has always been an inspiration to me. His posts describe the real Dean. As bad as he felt at times, he always had a few words of encouragment for us. He has picked me up many times. To this I say "Thanks Dean." Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Addie Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Dean & Gay...nothing but warm and appreciative thoughts of you, now and always. Your courage and dignity in how you've faced everything...is quite phenominal. I wish you peace on the rest of your journey. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patkid Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Ry, Thank you for the great respect your have for all of us;well done and much appreciated. To Dean and Gay, We continue prayer and support. Love Brat Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Dean and Gay, I just want you to know that you are in my prayers. May God be with you now and in the coming days. Love and Prayers, sue Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 My heart, my love and prayers go out for Dean and Gay. May God bless them both with His peace. Love, Peggy Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
NancyT Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 So very sad to read about Dean, Many prayers being sent to Dean and Gay NancyT Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nushka Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Thanks Ry for the post about Dean and Gay. As usual you have given them their dignity and privacy. That is what we should all expect from each other. I, for one, appreciate it. Dean and Gay. My heart breaks for both of you as this journey takes its finaly course. I keep you both in my prayers. Peace and comfort to you. Nina Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Botley Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Prayers for Dean and Gay! Our site is a better place due to so much of his wisdom. Blessings to both of you on this most difficult journey. Take Care, Botley & Mother Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Dean & Gay, I pray for peace for both of you to come soon. This has to be so hard on you both. My heart goes out to you both. I want you both to know that I have a candle lit. But it is also for you Gay for strength. What would Dean do without you? I am so sorry Hospice did not work out for you. You are his rock right now and I know in my heart that he will be at peace very soon. I wish I could say something to comfort you both, but know that I am thinking of you and sending good vibes your way. Maryanne Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
berisa Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Dean, you're in my prayer. May God give you & Gay special strength to go thru this most difficult time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Anais Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 I'm sad to hear the news ... Hope everything goes well. Anaïs Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annjael Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 (((((Dean and Gay))))) My thoughts and prayers are with you. Peace and blessings, Annjael Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Lamb Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Dean and Gay, our thoughts and prayers are with both of you. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cindi o'h Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Dean and Gay, Have been thinking of you both throughout the night. I have an inner confidence that you are being cradled in the arms of someone very powerful and great. I pray for an abonishment of pain for you, Dean and for peace and serenity. Calm. Peace. Serenity. Beauty. Power. Unity. And Love. Cindi o'h Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Lisa O Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 My love and gratitude are be with Dean for the kindness he has shown to me and of course my prayers are with both Dean and Gay. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
cathy Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Dear Dean, I feel blessed to have met you..I pray that God does what is best for you..You and Gay are in my thoughts and prayers..Thank you for all your wisdom XO Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Adding my prayers to both Dean and Gay. May God give you strength. Thank you Ry for sharing the update. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail p-m Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Ry, thanks for the update. I'm keeping Dean and Gay in my thoughts and prayers. gail p-m Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nancy B Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 Thanks Ry. Many prayers for Dean and Gay at this difficult time. Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rogfam Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 praying for you both, that you'll feel you're in His arms, full of peace and joy, no more pain... Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
babesdaughter Posted September 5, 2005 Share Posted September 5, 2005 In a world that is filled with such sadness right now....Dean and Gay are a beacon...of love, of dignity, of humor against all odds.... My prayers are with you..... The birds will sing differently, but SING they will! Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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