stand4hope Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Dear Friends, My son is seriously ill, again with pancreatitis, but it's even worse this time than it was in April 2005. He's been in the hospital now for eight days and he's being fed intravenously. Today he was very weak and having a fever up and down. His prognosis is anybody's guess. There can be so many complications with pancreatitis, and he really has it very bad this time. I refuse to believe the worst prognosis, but I can't sugar coat it, either! I'm so worried about him - I love him so much! I know he's a rascal, but it doesn't matter to me. I still love him with all my heart. When I met you all, I had four men in my life. I'm now down to two. Please pray that it stays that way! I know I haven't been here or posting very much, but I haven't stop checking up on all of you and I will never stop loving you. I know you already have so many to pray for, but could you please squeeze in a little prayer for my son. Well, a BIG prayer would be nice, too! And for those of you who will come back and ask how am I doing, I'll just answer ahead of time. All I can say is that I'm tired. After being caregiver to my mom, my grandma, my dad, Don, and now my son, I'm just tired. I'm tired of hospitals, doctors, nurses, ER, worrying, and seeing my loved ones suffer and be in pain and die. I'm just tired. It doesn't matter if it's lc or what the disease is, it just gets to you after a while. I'm sure I'll be ok. I try to think of my Nana that I loved with all my heart, who was very strong. She lived to be 98 and, of course, at that age, she pretty much lost everyone that she loved. In spite of that she always had a smile, and at age 98, she still always told a joke to anyone who would listen. Whenever I think of her, then I can smile. Thank you for any prayer for my son! All my love, Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
EastCoastLadi Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Peggy, I too only want the best for your son...it isn't fair!...you know my heart is going out to you tonite, I have told people before, I can deal w/ adults being sick, ( my dad, husband ), but when it comes to my children, I panick and get besides myself. So I feel that pain as one mother to another. But your son is young, that is a very good thing in his favor. I know his drs. will try everything they can. Peggy, I'm praying for you and your son tonite.....I'm here for you... Grace Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Oh, Peggy! I had no idea he was sick again. I will be praying for you both...for a miracle of healing for him and for new energy (and rest) for you to make it through the coming days. Love you, girlfriend. Take care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 ((((((Peggy))))))) Praying for him. Praying for you. You keep us posted, lady, and know that we care so much. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karenl Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Dear Peggy I was worried that something like this was happening after your last pm. Please know that I am sending lots of love and positive thoughts your way. I hope that Mike's pancreatitis can be brought under control successfully very soon, and that you are able to draw some strength from this community that loves you so.... Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geri Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Hoping for a swift recovery for your son, I'll keep you both in my thoughts. Geri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MsC1210 Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Peggy Adding my prayers and best wishes to you and your son. Chris Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Sending PRayers For Strenght and Better health for you and Your Son and Family today. Hang in there. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 (((Peggy))), I remember vividly '05 and the pancreatitis. I also remember being in awe of you and all you were handling with your son and Don at the same time. You are such a remarkable woman, Peggy, and in my eyes your ability to come through adversity is beyond my comprehension. Where I would have crumbled, you emerge so strong. Many prayers are already on their way to you. May God wrap His arms around you with comfort and strength to guide you through this latest challenge. You are never far from my thoughts....................for as I remind you often....................you were the first to befriend this newbie and I am indebted to you. We all will be waiting for updates, Peggy, good or bad. So when you can................just a few words to keep us all in the loop. Love, Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Frank Lamb Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Peggy,hoping and praying your son will pull through this ok. I,m also hoping you get a much deserved break for the better soon. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
rogfam Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 I'm so sorry, Peggy. You and your son are in my prayers. You are an amazingly strong woman, and He promises to get you through this storm as well. (I'm telling this to myself ast well, as life gets so hard sometimes...) ((hugs)) Christy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snowflake Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 I'm sorry, Peggy. I will get in contact with you as soon as I can, phone tag be damned. xxoo, Becky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Peggy, As we have discussed, our children afford us the greatest joy and the greatest sorrow. I have a dear friend that had horrendous pancreatitis, doubted that he would make it. He did and is enjoying life to the fullest. The only things are he can't drink ever and he has diabetes, I think from all the steroids. The good Lord has put too much on your plate these last few years. I hope Mike recovers quickly and completely and that there is only sunshine in your life for a long time. Keep us posted, we care and we are there with you in spirit and prayer. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calintay Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Of course your son is now in my prayer list! Take care Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Prayers for your son and you. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Peggy- I am so sorry for all you are dealing with. I hope they are able to get your son healthy again soon. Keep us posted on how he is doing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Peggy, I just don't know what to say. My heart goes out to you and my prayers are on the way. I am so sorry you and your son are going through this. Love and Prayers, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 You both are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 I am so sorry Peggy :( Sending lots of love and looking for good updates! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
joanie55 Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Peggy, To me, there is nothing worse than having a sick child. I send you all my good wishes for him to recover very soon. I'm also so sorry you have had to deal with so much. Joan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 ((((Peggy)))) You and Mike are definitely on my prayer list. Please know that I love you and my heart reaches out to you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
glo Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Thinking of you both, Peggy and wishing for the best. You're one very strong lady, but you must indeed be very tired of dealing with illnesses. My daughter is 31 and I can't even imagine how stressed I'd be if were her. Hugs, Peggy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted September 5, 2006 Share Posted September 5, 2006 Adding many prayers for your son and for you. It's nice that you feel comfortable coming to us in your time of need. I hope we can offer you some comfort and support. My continued prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted September 6, 2006 Author Share Posted September 6, 2006 Thank you all so much! Just a quick update. Mike is about the same, but a little better than yesterday. I was very sad and worried yesterday because he was just so sick and so weak. I was just so afraid .... well, you know. Today he is a little better, so I think maybe the intravenous feeding is helping some. He hadn't had any food or nutrition for a week, so I'm sure all the vitamins, potassium, etc. in the iv are helping him with strength. His pain is still floating between 7 and 9, and the fever keeps jumping from 98 to 100. He has some congestion in his lungs, too, so they have started him on an antibiotic. One other thing that's a little scary is that he was having bad chest and arm pain tonight so they took him down for a chest x-ray to be sure the feeding tube is in the right spot. I think this stuff goes either directly into his heart or around it or something like that. Maybe one of the nurses/experts on here could explain it better than I can. I'm off to bed. Thanks again for the prayers, and I am praying for all of you, too. Lori, I'm praying for you and your mom, Tina for your dad, Kasey for Fred (and Fred for YOU), for Lucie, for Grace's husband, for Katie's sad week, for Sue's health, and for you, too, Frank, etc., etc., etc. And Becky, you are in my prayers for some calm in your life! See, I'm still reading....... Love you all! Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
angelofcharlie20 Posted September 6, 2006 Share Posted September 6, 2006 You can add my prayer to the list Peggy. Shirley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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