bunny Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 the news is bittersweet: the doctors have decided that all of Brian's symptoms - pain, nausea, etc. - are caused by tumor progression. the doctor originally wanted to keep him there to hit the cancer immediately with Alimta and treat what they thought might be an infection of some sort, but he has reconsidered. I guess he feels that it is unlikely that additional chemo will have a substantial impact on Brian's cancer. as Pat put it, the doctor feels that Brian is in 'end stages'. the tumor in his liver and both tumors in his lungs are growing rapidly. so here's the sweet part: the doctor has opted in favor of quality of life for Brian, and has now RECOMMENDED that they go to the wedding. he saw that it was Brian's heart's desire. so the doc decided that, instead of putting Brian though the pain of Alimta and heartbreak of missing the wedding, they would manage his symptoms and discomfort and facilitate the trip to FL. so Brian and Pat are going to their kids' wedding in Florida! the pain patch, some ativan and a few other medications have Brian feeling very comfortable. When I spoke with Pat he was outside their home, feeding the squirrels!! what a miracle. they are both just thrilled. Pat says Brian is a different man than he was yesterday. yesterday, she says, he appeared on his deathbed and today there is a light on in his eyes. Pat is in great spirits and full of love and faith as always and Brian, as I said, is outside feeding the squirrels. who could possibly ask for more? Pat asked me to tell you that she appreciates everyone's support and prayers and asked me to convey that she believes whole-heartedly that this turn of events is the result of all of our praying -they have received Brian's comfort, and the ability for this family to be together at that Florida wedding. god is good. we love you, BRAT! xoxo amie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Thanks for the update Aime. So glad for the both of them that they can go to the wedding. My thoughts and prayers are with them for nothing but the best. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ann Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Bunny...thanks so much for keeping us posted on Pat & Brian. I am so glad they will be able to make the wedding. I know how much this will mean to their entire family. Does anyone know what part of Florida they are traveling to? After looking at Hurricane Wilma, we're a more than a little concerned here in Florida. Keeping Pat & Brian in our thoughts and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Addie Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 I have tears in my eyes. I am so happy for Brian and Pat that they can attend this wedding. It is very much the "sweet" part of things. As for the bitter side...well, right now I just don't want to think about anything but the sweet side. I want them to go to that wedding, dance, and I want to see pictures later on. Who knows? Maybe attending this family event will spawn the miracle we all want for Brian!! Maybe by the time he gets home, the tumors will have stopped growing. Maybe a good dose of love, family and celebration will be just the ticket to turn things around. At least, that's what's in my heart right now...and I'm going to keep wishing, hoping, vibing and having my conversations with God about it. All thru the weekend, I'm just going to be having those "sweet" thoughts of and for our favorite "Brat". Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamasbabygirl Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Pat abd Brian, You two have an absolutely fabulous view on life-I am so happy that you will attend the wedding and I pray that Addie is right. Try not to worry too much for now and enjoy!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
melindasue37 Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Wonderful, wonderful, wonderful news!!!! I'm so glad that they will be attending the wedding. It will be such a special day. Melinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 I will tend to focus on the sweet as opposed to the bitter too. This is so amazing...the difference a day makes. Sure wishing there is still room for a miracle here, you know what I mean? My very best wishes and heartfelt prayers will be going along to Florida. May God smile on Pat and Brian this weekend and all days. KAsey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 What a difference a day makes...I am so happy he will be at the wedding. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
daggiesmom Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Brian & Pat, Wonderful that you can go to the wedding. Feel better, Brian. Joanie ((())) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geri Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 One day at a time. Enjoy the wedding - how wonderful to be able to go - and then each day will bring what it will bring. Hoping for all really good days. Geri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dchurchi Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 All I can say is praise God!!! Debbie Husband Alan Dx small cell lung cancer Jan 10th 2005 Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CharlieD Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Brian and Pat, I'm in complete agreement with the rest of the gang. Go and enjoy. Deal with the other crap when you have to. God Bless. CharlieD Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ma's kid Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Bunny, again...thank you for the update. They are so in my prayers! I am glad they can attend the wedding. Blessings all around Libby Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kel M Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 I will also focus on the sweet news and wish Pat and Brian a wonderful trip to Florida! I'm sure that every single moment of it will be special. My thoughts and prayers continue to be with them - so glad to hear that Brian is feeling better and out feeding the squirrels. Thanks for providing the update, Amie. Kel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
KarHart Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Thank you for keeping us updated. I am so happy they can come to FL for the wedding. It was so sad to think they would miss it. Hopefully, the hurricane will not interfere with any of there plans. Prayers continuing. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Thank you bunny . Pat and Brian , as always my thoughts and prayers are there with you. I'm praying that the wedding will be a beautiful, memorable, experience for all and one of many memorable times to come. God be with you . Love and Prayers, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jdjenkins Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 I knew the Lord would not let us down. I'm so happy that you both get to attend the wedding. I hope it is a wonderful weekend. Enjoy! Denise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
LynneH Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Pat and Brian, you two go have the time of your lives! What a wonderful time to be with the family and enjoying the celebration. If Brian gets lonely feeding those squirrels, you just holler. My Estee and Sadie will bring them to him (in a yucky way). With a whole ton of love, I wish you a safe and blessed trip, Lynne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
annjael Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Pat and Brian, How wonderful that you get to go to your son's wedding!!! You both have such an amazing faith and outlook, not even Hurricane Wilma could keep you guys away! SHE WOULDNT DARE!!!! May God go with you both and shine on you. Peace, Annjael Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Maryanne Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 PRICELESS!!!!!!!! I am so thrilled they will be there for the big day. I want to see pics when you get back. I have been praying for this too happen like so many here. The power of prayer WORKS!!!! You are so right Katie, this is so bittersweet. Have a wonderful, wonderful time you guys. Thank you so much Bunny honey for keeping us informed about our Pat and Brian. Maryanne Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MilliBr1 Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Bunny thank you for the updates. Pat and Brian, I am so very happy that you will be going to the wedding! I will be thinking and praying for you, that you will have a safe trip and that you can enjoy every minute with your family. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancy c Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 Thanks so much for the update!! I know how important being at the wedding is. It is a goal my Mike wanted to do, and he did. Thank God that going to the wedding put spark in Brian's eyes! God bless them both, Nancy C Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shar Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 I am so glad they are attending the wedding. It's amazing what a lift in spirits can do for the body. Have a great time guys, you really do deserve it!!!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Calintay Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 I sure hope they have a wonderful time in Florida at the wedding and with the kids. Many prayers for both of them! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patkid Posted October 19, 2005 Share Posted October 19, 2005 one quick and sincere THANK YOU Your prayers and love sustain us. Brian is tucked in his own bed, with good drugs on board and dreaming of dancing at Greg's and Sonya's wedding. I am trusting our ABBA. Your posts, emails and phone calls have blessed us this week. Bunny, your posting for me is perfect. I will be off line till Tuesday, or maybe there will be an opportuntiy to log on in FL? I am scared, happy, sad, excited, full of dread, delighted, bummed and hopeful. I know you understand and I don't know what I would do w/ out you. Love Brat Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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