gerbil runner Posted November 15, 2005 Share Posted November 15, 2005 Hi, everyone. Haven't written lately because things have been busy and sad. Mom had gamma knife on October 19th for recurrent brain mets. She had gotten much weaker before the procedure, so much so that we took her in to see the onc. one week before. She was a little dehydrated, but otherwise blood work was normal. After a very very long day with the gamma knife, Mom stayed overnight in the hospital. After she came home, we all waited for her to improve. But gradually, she got weaker and weaker. It's obvious now that the disease has gotten farther in her brain than the gamma knife could help. Mom is bedridden, with a catheter. Blood work is all normal. She has to be fed, as she is too shaky to feed herself. Mom can't even turn over without help. She sleeps a lot, and doesn't say much. She will respond when spoken to, and still has a sense of humor, but speaking is a real effort. She is not in any pain. We have had assistance from Home and Hospice daily under the palliative care program, and tomorrow we will be changing her to the regular hospice program. Dad is coping as best he can. We give Mom lots of company, and whatever she wants to eat - including baked stuffed lobster. It's a sad time for us, but we are so very grateful for the almost 2 years Mom has had since diagnosis. I am also grateful for the companionship of this site. Saying prayers for us all, Jen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patkid Posted November 15, 2005 Share Posted November 15, 2005 Jen, dear, we are so sorry to read this, Please give your mother a hug from us and tell her that Brian really understands the weak feeling. Lots of love Pat and Brian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted November 15, 2005 Share Posted November 15, 2005 Jen- I am so very sad to hear about your mom. How heartbreaking for you. I wish her a peaceful passing and you the strength to get through this. Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jang Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Jen, I'm sorry to hear about your Mom. I'm sure she knows how lucky she is to have all of you there taking care of her. My thoughts are with you all. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharyn Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Jen, I am sorry to hear this news about your Mom. I am praying for you all. May God give you strength. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fall54 Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Dear Jen, I am so sorry things are not better. You are all in my prayers. God Bless, Jane Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Will be offering many prayers for your Mom and family during this difficult time. So sorry your journey has taken this turn. Let us know how things are when you can, Jen. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Jen, this is very sad news. I agree, I gave Earl anything he wanted to eat. The last couple of weeks all he ate was fresh cut up fruit and sherbert. It is good that your dear Mother seems to be in no pain and hospice will make sure that continues. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snowflake Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Jen, I am so sorry to read this. I'm not sorry that she is feeling no pain, just sorry that she has gotten so far into the journey in such a short time. I wish her and her family peace in the time to come. Love to you, Becky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nancy B Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Jen, So sorry to hear this. Just know you and your Mom and your family are in my prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
mamasbabygirl Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 I am so sorry to hear that this has happened. I wish you all peace and comfort. Godspeed- Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail p-m Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Jen, I'm so sorry to hear you news about your mom. I send my prayers for all of you during this very difficult time. gail p-m Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Please know that you, your mother and family are in my prayers. Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
lilyjohn Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 My heart goes out to you and your family. May you find the peace and strength that will get you through the days and weeks ahead. Lillian Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
elnodel Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Dear Jen, So sorry to hear your news, but I'm glad your mom is comfortable and in no pain. I know that you'll treasure every moment you have with her and that she'll appreciate that too. Take care of yourself as well. I'll be thinking of you and your mom and hoping for peace and ease as she goes into the last stages of this journey. Ellen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammy Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 I am so sorry. When reading this it reminds me of my Mom to a T. This is going to be a tough time for you but may your Mom go peacefully. Lots of hugs and prayers. Tammy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tammy Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 I am so sorry. When reading this it reminds me of my Mom to a T. This is going to be a tough time for you but may your Mom go peacefully. Lots of hugs and prayers. Tammy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Jen Very sorry to hear about your mom. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your mom. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nancy c Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 I am sorry you at this point. But be asured that hospice is a present sent from God above. I wish you and your family peace and love. Love your mother all you can. God bless, Nancy C Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
kamataca Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Jen, This must be such a difficult time for you. What a blessing that your mom is not in so much pain. I pray for strength for all of you. Kelly Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Debi Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Jen, Both you and your mom are in my thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Trish Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 I'm so sorry--I was hoping no news was good news. Your family is in my prayers. Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Jen, this is such sad news. My prayers are with you. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Jen, Sorry that your mother is getting weaker, my prayers will be that her journey keeps on with mo pain and still with her sense of humor to leave you even more good memories. Hugs to all J.C. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Addie Posted November 16, 2005 Share Posted November 16, 2005 Oh, Jen....my heart goes out to you and your family. Sending you vibes, honey, for strength and peace....and keeping your mom in my best thoughts. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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