Debi Posted April 21, 2007 Share Posted April 21, 2007 Just wanted to share that today is my son's 8th birthday. While that normally is a reason to get birthday cake and celebrate for most folks, for me, like so many others in our group, it carries all the weight in the world. It's not only a time to rejoice, but a time to reflect. My 'shadow' was found on my lung in January 03, and I had to wait until June to have it removed. However, in April, a week before Eric's birthday I found out from a follow up CT that the nodule was growing, and that it was most likely cancer. I remember trying not to think about my son in this new scheme of things, when I thought about him losing me, I couldn't even breathe- I was so afraid for him. He was 3 years old and he needed me so much. His 4th birthday came the end of the month, and all I wanted was to live until September, and see him start pre-school. I kept thinking that the more days I put under our belts so to speak, the better the chance he would have of remembering something about me, when I was gone. Well, I lived to see him start pre-k, and then Kindergarten, and 1st grade, and this past year, 2nd grade. In September, I will see him start THIRD grade! (notice I left out the maybe-I have come far!) Anyway, that's all I wanted to share. I may have not solved world hunger in the last almost 4 years, but I know my presence here has made a big difference in a little guy's life. And as we celebrate the 5th birthday together since our lives changed, I had to take a moment to share my gratitude with the only people that understnad it. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted April 21, 2007 Share Posted April 21, 2007 You've not only made a difference in Eric's life, Debi, but oh so many more folks right here. You support so many with you wit and wisdom. You are needed by many. Have a wonderful b-day celebraation and hope you know that many of us are celebrating it right along with you guys! Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muriel Posted April 21, 2007 Share Posted April 21, 2007 I worried about Eric - and what might happen to him - for a while, too. I guess we can stop worrying now, or at least not do it so often. Very happy for you and Eric. And, happy birthday to Eric. Muriel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eileen Posted April 21, 2007 Share Posted April 21, 2007 and I am so proud of your accomplishments as you should be! You did real good for your self! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chloesmom Posted April 21, 2007 Share Posted April 21, 2007 Debi, Happy Birthday to that little cutie! I understand what you mean about these kinds of days being cause for remembering them in years that were not so kind, but hey, from here on out, it's onward and upward!!! I hope you both have a great Eric's birthday! And yes, you've made a difference in a lot of lives in that time. Cindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nushka Posted April 21, 2007 Share Posted April 21, 2007 Debi, your post brought tears to my eyes. Tears of happiness for you and for Eric. Looks like you will make it long past when your grandchildren turn 8. Congratulations. Nina Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
DanaBrooke Posted April 21, 2007 Share Posted April 21, 2007 amazing Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail Posted April 22, 2007 Share Posted April 22, 2007 Brought a tear to my eye girlfriend!!! And a smile on my face. I KNOW what you mean! Enjoy the day, the week, the all, because before you know it . . . he's in college and too busy to talk!!! gail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
tnmynatt Posted April 22, 2007 Share Posted April 22, 2007 What a blessing! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ernrol Posted April 22, 2007 Share Posted April 22, 2007 Debi, Happy Birthday to Eric. I look forward to you telling us about his college graduation. Stay positive, Ernie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Welthy Posted April 22, 2007 Share Posted April 22, 2007 Well, Happy Birthday to Eric!! (and a big Whoo-hoo to you Debi!) You both rock and deserve the best in life. (And I can't imagine why you didn't let me know sooner so I could have knitted some outfits for his sea-monkeys. You DID give him sea-monkeys didn't you? Oh, but I don't have your address anyway! LOL) Debi (still 49) Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted April 22, 2007 Share Posted April 22, 2007 Happy Birthday Eric! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geri Posted April 23, 2007 Share Posted April 23, 2007 Belated Happy Birthday Eric, you're both so lucky to have each other. Hope his celebration was a good one. Geri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted April 23, 2007 Share Posted April 23, 2007 Happy Big 8!!!! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trish2418 Posted April 23, 2007 Share Posted April 23, 2007 What a wonderful and special day for both of you. I'm celebrating with you. Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted April 24, 2007 Share Posted April 24, 2007 Happy belated birthday Eric. Deb, what's the driving age in Ohio???? Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea Posted April 24, 2007 Share Posted April 24, 2007 Many many happy b-days to your son! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted April 25, 2007 Share Posted April 25, 2007 HAPPY HAPPY BIRTHDAY ERIC! A BIG HIP HIP HOORAY FOR YOU TOO DEB! A JOB WELL DONE I MAY ADD! This is wonderful! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
nonni Posted April 27, 2007 Share Posted April 27, 2007 Happy Birthday to that handsome little guy Eric....what a cutie he is.... Debi ...your post brought a tear....you are a big inspiration to ALL of us...not only Eric...He is so lucky to have a Mom like you....Best of luck to both of you for many many more years to come...hugs ..Pam Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharonjo Posted April 28, 2007 Share Posted April 28, 2007 Congrats Debi, you are an inspiration to us all! Happy Birthday Eric! God Bless, Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jang Posted April 28, 2007 Share Posted April 28, 2007 A very belated Happy Birthday to Eric! Your post brought tears to my eyes too. I know exactly how you feel. Every milestone means so much now. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eileen4 Posted April 29, 2007 Share Posted April 29, 2007 Happy Birthday to that beautiful boy and a BIG congratulations to you Debi. I think it's just great, and want you to know how inspiring your posts are. Eileen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted April 29, 2007 Share Posted April 29, 2007 I missed this post Debi...hey Eric, happy birthday! Don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted April 30, 2007 Share Posted April 30, 2007 Missed the post. Happy Birthday Eric. Congratulations Debi. Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Alisa Posted May 3, 2007 Share Posted May 3, 2007 Happy Happy Birthday to your son! I can relate ... when I was first diagnosed I prayed to be at the elementary school graduation. My twins just turned 17 this year. We are truly blessed ... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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