stoydc Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 Tonight, my father, peacefully passed away at home with all of his family at his side. He was alert almost until the end, and we were able to tell him how much we love him and how much he means to us. Even all of the grandchildren were able to see him. Through God's providence, a home health nurse came to open up his case - on Easter Sunday. The nurse was able to come to see him only because another patient did not answer his phone. The nurse drew lab work and a type and cross, in case he needed a transfusion (Thanks to some advice I got from this site). We debated whether we should take him to the hospital or not and through God's providence, we were able to talk to a oncologist affiliated with our health plan from my aunt's church. We asked him a lot of questions about what we could do for my father, and he assured us that as long as we could keep him comfortable at home, there really wasn't much more they could do in the hospital. I am still in a state of shock on how quickly he went. There was a dramatic change every day for the past week. Last Sunday he went to church and offered a prayer request about everything being in God's hands, and today on Resurrection Sunday he is finally free from all the cares and troubles of this world. We had originally planned a family trip this week and in many ways it was God's providence that we had this week together and we will be forever grateful for this time we had. I know it was hard on us for him to go so quickly, but I know it would have been even harder for him to be sick for a long time since he was such an active/independent person. Thank you again for all your love and support and advice. Again, you are all a Godsend. shirley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dadstimeon Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 Shirley, I'm so very sorry to hear about your father. Please except my sincere condolences to you and your family. Peace, take care and God Bless. Rich Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TBone Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 I am so sorry to hear about your father but so glad that he passed as he did.At peace and with his family.I pray that your family finds strength to face the sad days ahead.We are always here for support.TBone Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Angie Daughter of Bill Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 I am so sorry to hear about your Dad's passing. By God's grace, he passed peacefully with the one's he loved surrounding him. I will pray for strength and peace for you and your family. Angie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 Shirley, Sorry about your father, but he had all his family with him, and he went in peace. From one week to the next it is a fast exit, but one that is often better than too long as the souvenirs of the day are softer and do not bring as much bad memories to us. My codolences to all of you. J.C. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
betplace Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 (((Shirley))) I am sooo sorry for the loss of you beloved father. I am sending prayers and hugs for the whole family. Blessings Betty Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
stand4hope Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 Shirley, I am sooooooo sorry for your loss. It sounds like you have great faith in God, and He will help you through the upcoming days, months and years to cope with your terrible loss. Again, I am so sorry. God bless you, Peggy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
ginnyde Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 Shirley, Please accept my sympathy on the passing of your dear Father. How lucky he was to be surrounded by his family. Ginny Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 I am so sorry for your loss Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
norme Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 Shirley, Am so sorry for your loss. Am glad the family was there to help him cross over. He will be missed dearly but we all have a day and wouldn't it be nice to have it at 80 and healthy up to that point. He had a good life I am sure from your post. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shelliemacs Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 I am so very sorry about your dads passing. It doesn't make sense how quickly things go bad or the fact that there is nothing we can do to stop it. I wish words could ease your pain but I know they can't and only time will ease your broken heart. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MO_Sugar Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 I am so sorry to hear of your Fathers passing. He is now at rest. God bless, MO Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don Wood Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 Shirley, so sorry you dad has passed, but I'm glad it was peaceful for him. My heartfelt sympathies to you and your family. Keep connected here, so we can help you through the grief period. Don Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
karen335 Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 Shirley, I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your father. Sincere condolences to you and your family.... Blessings and prayers, Karen Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Melinda Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 Shirley, I am so sorry to hear about your dad. There are no words... I am glad to hear that you and your family got to spend this last week with him and that you were all there when he went. I'm sure that meant a great deal to all of you. Please know that our thoughts are with you and we are "here" in case you need to talk through these difficult times. Sincerely, Melinda Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gerbil runner Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 I'm so sorry to read of your dad's passing. It was good the family was able to be with him. I hope you will all find peace in the days ahead. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
TheresaKB Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 (((Shirley))) I am so sorry for your loss. Praying for peace and strength for the coming days. Theresa Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Fay A. Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 I'm sorry for your loss, Shirley. I think it really is a blessing to be able to spend time with those you love. I just know that you were a true comfort to your Father during his life and especially over this past week. I hope you can find solace in knowing this. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
natalie Posted April 12, 2004 Share Posted April 12, 2004 Shirly, I am shocked to read your post. I'm so sorry about the loss of your father. If you want to join me at a local grieving group, let me know. I went to two of them in February and it helped me a little. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Tiny Posted April 13, 2004 Share Posted April 13, 2004 Shirley- I know you are hurting and distressed, but you also sound at peace with the way your father left this earth. I offer my condolences and prayers. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Margaret Posted April 13, 2004 Share Posted April 13, 2004 Peace and comfort would be to die in the presence of the people most loved and with the peace of the knowledge of resurrection. It appears that you and your family were able to provide that for your Father and that will carry you through the days ahead. May God hold you all close as you grieve in this loss. God's Blessings, Margaret Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
David P Posted April 13, 2004 Share Posted April 13, 2004 Shirley. Please accept my condolences on the passing of your dear father. David P. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Eileen Posted April 13, 2004 Share Posted April 13, 2004 Shirley---so sorry for the loss of your dear Father In sympathy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharyn Posted April 13, 2004 Share Posted April 13, 2004 My deepest sympathy to you and your family. God Bless. Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
espy Posted April 13, 2004 Share Posted April 13, 2004 Shirley, I am so sorry to hear that your father has lost his battle with lung cancer. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Please accept my deepest sympathy. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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