Debi Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 The 4th anniversary from my surgery, when my cancer was removed, was last Saturday. I was driving back from a business trip in NY (don't ask, damn planes) and remembered at about noon what day it was. That alone is a miracle - I actually FORGOT that it was my anniversary. Is that cool or what?? Anyway, it had been a long week and I was bummed that I had plane issues and had to drive to NY and back. But sometimes things happen for a reason. I had forgotten how beautiful Pennsylvania was and the green of the mountains and the blue of the sky was just awesome. Along the way, I thought about all my friends lost from here and somehow made peace with their loss through the miles. Every song on the radio sounded like it was a soundtrack picked out for the drive. It was one of those days that was just so pretty that you feel that if you go to sleep and don't wake up it will be okay, because you had that one day where you were able to slow down and notice life. So my flight being cancelled earlier in the week and my 8 hour nightmare in the airport actually became my anniversary gift. I accepted an offer for the job up here (finally!)so am permanently relocating. I have to go to a new doctor the end of July for my 6 month check up. But in the meantime, I feel good and hope that the cancer will continue to dim in my memory. Last year I got a tattoo for my 3rd anniversary, this year I got a chihuahua. That alone is growth, I actually got something that I plan on staying alive to take care of-the first 2 years I wouldnt even buy a plant. I was tempted to buy a house, but rented instead.- I'm not quite there. I'm thinking I'll save buying the house for my 5th anniversary... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
recce101 Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 Those days when everything clicks into place are all too rare, but aren't they nice! Aloha, Ned Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
trish2418 Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 Congrats on 4 years, Debi. Quite the milestone. Enjoy all the new opportunities and challenges in your life. Trish Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
laban Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 Thank you for your eloquently spoken words. It's all about enjoying today. Blessings to you and keep up the good work. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
chloesmom Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 Debi, Congratulations on your four year milestone! Actually, today is the day I was sent home from the hospital four years ago, and for some reason this year, I've been thinking back on that a lot over the last few days and reliving how miserable all of that was. But, it sure does feel good to be out among the living. Like you, I've enjoyed some absolutely perfect weather here in Illinois (not today, it's raining and my golf got cancelled, but anyway) and so appreciate my health these days. I am so happy that you are moving to Ohio and now you have a new puppy! That'll keep you busy for a long time!!! Seriously, I'm happy for you and keep those good posts coming!!!! Cindy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
beatlemike Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 CONGRADULATIONS. Heres to many many more. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
J.C. Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 Congratulations many more NED years for you. Hugs Jackie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Snowflake Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 Funny, I thought of you this week...was driving along and your FAVORITE AC/DC song popped on the radio. I turned it way up and screamed along to the music, "I'm on the highway to Hell..." Here's to more good days, forgotten anniversaries, and memories of good friends! xxoo, Becky Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 Hi Deb: congrats on the 4 years out. Pennsylvania sounds nice. I bought some fertilizer to age for the garden next year, so I am thinking ahead a bit too. Don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 Wow it is wonderful to be able to realize you forgot something like that. Congratulations!!! Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
sharonjo Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 Debi, Congrats on the 4 years! Sharon Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Geri Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 You've made my day, this is wonderful. I think the best part is that you totally forgot. Enjoy watching Eric and the dog grow up, together. You've made huge strides here. Geri Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Treebywater Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 Debi, you ROCK! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muriel Posted June 23, 2007 Share Posted June 23, 2007 Congratulations, Debi! This is such good news. I'm happy about the puppy, too. Everyone needs a dog. Will we see pictures? Is it a boy or girl dog? Name? Oops, I'm focusing more on the puppy, than on your survival. Sorry. It is time for long range planning, tho. Really happy about the four years! Muriel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
fillise Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 Debi--you've achieved the real victory by letting the beautify of life dampen the fear and sadness that comes with this disease. I'm thinking a beautiful house for your 5th, with a nice long mortgage! Susan Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dscherer Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 Debi, That is such great news!! I think it is great that you "forgot" but I am just as happy that "remembering" brought you such beauty!! Next year at this time we will be looking for pictures of your home!!! I can't wait! Dana Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy Posted June 24, 2007 Share Posted June 24, 2007 Debi, Congratulations are in order and a little happy dance too! Cheers to many more milestones ahead, Wendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Shelley (MLC) Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 Congratulations Debi! Shelley Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nushka Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 Debi, Boy you have made some big forward steps in the last few months. Congratulations on living life to the fullest. I love the little dog and I know that you and your son will have a great time with it. Dogs are such wonderful companions. Nina PS hope to see that new house next year. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Andrea Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 Happy Anniversary. The doggie is so cute! I can't wait for you to get a house a year from now Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Kasey Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 This is awesome news, Debi. Some day I hope to get to the 'forgetting' stage too. You've really got things falling into place, I'd say............so you deserve congrats on many levels. How come you didn't stop by on your way through PA? Would have been terrific to see you again. And BTW.......did you name your new 'addition' after anyone we know ? Thanks for the update. Kasey Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 Happy four! Come to Michigan and celebrate! Huh...no offense but you call that a dog (sorry I had to do it, the whole battle of the Davids over the chihuahua came to me). Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
gail Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 Way to go girl!!! Doggie looks very cute and I bet Eric loves having a dog. Confused on the job--you moving AGAIN??? Leaving the company? Where in PA? That's putting you closer to me you know! hugs gail Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Connie B Posted June 25, 2007 Share Posted June 25, 2007 Happy HAPPY (4) Years Debi!!! Congratulations! Not planning for a future sure sounds all to familiar when I started out on this God for sakin lc journey. I'm very happy to hear that life is working in your favor and that things are starting to settle down for you. You've come a long ways baby! I wish you continued GOOD HEALTH AND A VERY HAPPY & WONDERFUL LIFE! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jang Posted June 26, 2007 Share Posted June 26, 2007 Congratulations Debi! I am so happy for you! Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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