Larry has passed away

[Larry's Wife]

Larry passed away at 8:10 pm on Thursday, July 24th. He died at home, just the way he wanted.

Thank you all so very much for helping me to cope while on this truly horrendous walk with lung cancer.

I'll be in touch.

[SandraL]

Oh Lynn. I am deeply saddened to hear your news. God bless and peace be with you both at this time.

Sandra

[Bruce u]

Lynn I was so very sorry to hear this. You and your family are in my thought's and prayers. Take care.

[Flyman35]

(((((Lynn)))))) I am so so sad to hear of this news. Larry fought a good fight. You have my deepest sympathies. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers.

Peace to you at this difficult time.

Denise

[dchurchi]

(((Lynn)))

I am very sorry to hear of Larry's passing. I know how difficult this is, but I am happy to hear Larry died at home as he wished. I will pray that some how you find comfort in the fact Larry is now cancer free and no longer suffers. Please send me a PM if you need to "talk"

[recce101]

Lynn, my deepest condolences. You've been marvelous through this entire tragic episode. Peace and Aloha,

Ned

[carolhg]

I am so very, very sorry for your loss. My prayers and condolences for you and your family.

Carol

[Nick C]

I'm so sorry, so sad to read.

[RandyW]

Larry was so very fortunate to have such acaring compassionate person by his side throughout this battle. I know how hard thisis facing this "new normal"in your lif eright now and my thoughts prayers and condolences go out to you and the whole family. PLease know that we are here at any time you need to talk and vent or just unload something. Lynn you can also PM me if you need to..

[jaminkw]

Lynn, I just posted my sincere sympathy for you and your family in your time of grief but it isn't showing up. I am happy Larry got his wish to pass at home. I'm sure it was difficult but hope you find some peace in his final release from this devastating disease.

Judy in Key West

[Don M]

Lynn, please accept my condolences for your loss.

Don M

[blueeye]

Lynn, I am very sorry for your loss.

Leslie

[Patti B]

Lynn-

I am so truly sorry to hear of Larrys passing. Please accept my condolensces.

If you need anything at all, please PM me.

You will be in my thoughts and prayers.

((((Lynn))))

Patti B.

[Larry's Wife]

Thank you all for your comforting words.

Although Larry had been declining steadily for a couple of weeks, we didn't expect him to die so suddenly. But it was a gentle death. He watched his two favorite TV shows while he ate his dinner, then a new show came on at 8:00 while he was enjoying what turned out to be his last cigarette. A few moments later, he was in distress. I asked him if he was short of breath...yes. Do you want a breathing treatment...yes. He stubbed out the cigarette and started the breathing treatment. Half-way through, he couldn't hold it to his mouth, so I helped him. Then I saw his eyes. He was having a seizure, but not the violent kind. So I put the treatment aside and rubbed his arms and looked into his eyes and told him that I was right here and that we all loved him very much. And I just kept chanting that. And then he closed his eyes and passed away. Time of death was 8:10 p.m.

I haven't broken down yet. Almost scary, I've been so calm. I tried to lay down for a nap this afternoon. While I was laying there, it occurred to me...Larry is often gone for one or two weeks at a time. And I have never missed him during the first week. But by the second week, I want him home so badly. So I need to prepare myself for next Thursday. Which is also the day of his funeral. I pray I can wait to break down in the privacy of our bedroom, after our son has gone to sleep. Because I am sure it will scare the hell out of him. He's only 14.

He told me tonight that it doesn't seem real to him yet. But when he gets up in the morning and doesn't see Dad there, he remembers. I told him tonight that both of us were probably going to break down at some point. And that he should come to me at whatever time he breaks down, so we can be together and get through it together.

We decided tonight that our new life will start on Sunday, August 3rd. Until then, we are just going to coast.

[SandraL]

One day at a time Lynn for sure. I have NO idea what you are going through but my heart goes out to you and your young son.

Sandra

[shineladysue]

Lynn,

I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family have my heartfelt sympathy and I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers as you go through the days ahead.

Hugs,

Sue

[Muriel]

Lynn, I'm so sorry for your loss. It is good that Larry could have his wish to remain at home. That must have been comforting to him and to you.

Muriel

[Barbb]

{{{{Lynn and son}}}

My heart goes out to you, I'm so glad you have each other. God be with you.

Barb

[jaminkw]

Lynn, In my earlier post I had written that I hoped it was a peaceful end for Larry. I deleted it thinking it would be insensitive if it turned out it wasn't. From the beautiful words you use to describe his passing, it obviously was. When I hear people describe their loved ones passing in such tender tones, it makes me less scared for when my own time comes. You and your son have the hard part grieving Larry's death. Bless you both.

Judy in Key West

[Ry]

I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your son strength to get through the time ahead.

Rochelle

[teriw]

Lynn,

I'm so sorry for your loss. As others have expressed, I'm glad to read that Larry's passing was a peaceful one. These first days and weeks are a whirlwind. Just allow them to come as they will, and be gentle on yourself.

[Wendy]

Prayers to you and yours,

Wendy

[Flo Bones]

Lynn

I'm so sorry for your lost. You are not alone. My deepest condolences to you and your son.

flo

[MomsGirl]

Lynn, I'm so very sorry...

[CaroleHammett]

Lynn.

I am so sorry. My deepest and most heartfelt condolences to you and Larry's children and family.

Affectionately,

Carole