Larry's Wife Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Larry passed away at 8:10 pm on Thursday, July 24th. He died at home, just the way he wanted. Thank you all so very much for helping me to cope while on this truly horrendous walk with lung cancer. I'll be in touch. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandraL Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Oh Lynn. I am deeply saddened to hear your news. God bless and peace be with you both at this time. Sandra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Bruce u Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Lynn I was so very sorry to hear this. You and your family are in my thought's and prayers. Take care. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flyman35 Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 (((((Lynn)))))) I am so so sad to hear of this news. Larry fought a good fight. You have my deepest sympathies. I will keep you in my thoughts and prayers. Peace to you at this difficult time. Denise Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
dchurchi Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 (((Lynn))) I am very sorry to hear of Larry's passing. I know how difficult this is, but I am happy to hear Larry died at home as he wished. I will pray that some how you find comfort in the fact Larry is now cancer free and no longer suffers. Please send me a PM if you need to "talk" Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
recce101 Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Lynn, my deepest condolences. You've been marvelous through this entire tragic episode. Peace and Aloha, Ned Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
carolhg Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 I am so very, very sorry for your loss. My prayers and condolences for you and your family. Carol Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Nick C Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 I'm so sorry, so sad to read. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
RandyW Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Larry was so very fortunate to have such acaring compassionate person by his side throughout this battle. I know how hard thisis facing this "new normal"in your lif eright now and my thoughts prayers and condolences go out to you and the whole family. PLease know that we are here at any time you need to talk and vent or just unload something. Lynn you can also PM me if you need to.. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaminkw Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Lynn, I just posted my sincere sympathy for you and your family in your time of grief but it isn't showing up. I am happy Larry got his wish to pass at home. I'm sure it was difficult but hope you find some peace in his final release from this devastating disease. Judy in Key West Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Don M Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Lynn, please accept my condolences for your loss. Don M Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
blueeye Posted July 26, 2008 Share Posted July 26, 2008 Lynn, I am very sorry for your loss. Leslie Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Patti B Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 Lynn- I am so truly sorry to hear of Larrys passing. Please accept my condolensces. If you need anything at all, please PM me. You will be in my thoughts and prayers. ((((Lynn)))) Patti B. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Larry's Wife Posted July 27, 2008 Author Share Posted July 27, 2008 Thank you all for your comforting words. Although Larry had been declining steadily for a couple of weeks, we didn't expect him to die so suddenly. But it was a gentle death. He watched his two favorite TV shows while he ate his dinner, then a new show came on at 8:00 while he was enjoying what turned out to be his last cigarette. A few moments later, he was in distress. I asked him if he was short of breath...yes. Do you want a breathing treatment...yes. He stubbed out the cigarette and started the breathing treatment. Half-way through, he couldn't hold it to his mouth, so I helped him. Then I saw his eyes. He was having a seizure, but not the violent kind. So I put the treatment aside and rubbed his arms and looked into his eyes and told him that I was right here and that we all loved him very much. And I just kept chanting that. And then he closed his eyes and passed away. Time of death was 8:10 p.m. I haven't broken down yet. Almost scary, I've been so calm. I tried to lay down for a nap this afternoon. While I was laying there, it occurred to me...Larry is often gone for one or two weeks at a time. And I have never missed him during the first week. But by the second week, I want him home so badly. So I need to prepare myself for next Thursday. Which is also the day of his funeral. I pray I can wait to break down in the privacy of our bedroom, after our son has gone to sleep. Because I am sure it will scare the hell out of him. He's only 14. He told me tonight that it doesn't seem real to him yet. But when he gets up in the morning and doesn't see Dad there, he remembers. I told him tonight that both of us were probably going to break down at some point. And that he should come to me at whatever time he breaks down, so we can be together and get through it together. We decided tonight that our new life will start on Sunday, August 3rd. Until then, we are just going to coast. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
SandraL Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 One day at a time Lynn for sure. I have NO idea what you are going through but my heart goes out to you and your young son. Sandra Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
shineladysue Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 Lynn, I am so very sorry for your loss. You and your family have my heartfelt sympathy and I will be keeping you in my thoughts and prayers as you go through the days ahead. Hugs, Sue Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Muriel Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 Lynn, I'm so sorry for your loss. It is good that Larry could have his wish to remain at home. That must have been comforting to him and to you. Muriel Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Barbb Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 {{{{Lynn and son}}} My heart goes out to you, I'm so glad you have each other. God be with you. Barb Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
jaminkw Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 Lynn, In my earlier post I had written that I hoped it was a peaceful end for Larry. I deleted it thinking it would be insensitive if it turned out it wasn't. From the beautiful words you use to describe his passing, it obviously was. When I hear people describe their loved ones passing in such tender tones, it makes me less scared for when my own time comes. You and your son have the hard part grieving Larry's death. Bless you both. Judy in Key West Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Ry Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 I am so sorry for your loss. I wish you and your son strength to get through the time ahead. Rochelle Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
teriw Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 Lynn, I'm so sorry for your loss. As others have expressed, I'm glad to read that Larry's passing was a peaceful one. These first days and weeks are a whirlwind. Just allow them to come as they will, and be gentle on yourself. Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Wendy Posted July 27, 2008 Share Posted July 27, 2008 Prayers to you and yours, Wendy Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
Flo Bones Posted July 28, 2008 Share Posted July 28, 2008 Lynn I'm so sorry for your lost. You are not alone. My deepest condolences to you and your son. flo Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
MomsGirl Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 Lynn, I'm so very sorry... Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
CaroleHammett Posted July 29, 2008 Share Posted July 29, 2008 Lynn. I am so sorry. My deepest and most heartfelt condolences to you and Larry's children and family. Affectionately, Carole Quote Link to comment Share on other sites More sharing options...
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